Things you can Do Together when you are Not Together

Things you can Do Together when you are Not Together

Long distance relationships can take it’s toil when they realize there is nothing much they can do together. This article gives you some ideas on what you can do without to spice up your long distance relationship. Hope that the ideas can get you closer to your partner.

#1 - Watch something simultaneously together !

Make a date or time of the night and watch something together could spice up the relationship. This is a good idea if you find yourself running out of things to talk about on the phone. Doing this takes off the pressure of talking since you’ll both be into the show/movie, plus it gives you something to talk about afterward !

#2 - Send your spouse flowers

Do something special once in a while. There are many flower shops that can help send flowers for you. If you don’t want to spend on real flowers, try the virtual ones. Visit Flowers2Mail.com and spice up your relationship.

#3 - Play a game together

There are a few free online games where you can play together. Try Yahoo! Games or Pogo.com.

#4 - Get a webcam

If you don’t have one already, get one. Seeing each other online is another way to get closer to each other. You may visit skype which offers similiar services.

#5 - Send an e-card !

Similar to sending a virtual bouquet, sending a hiliarious e-card can improve your relationship. If you are sick and tired of lame e-cards found online, try SomeEcards.com. But if you are easily offended by vulgarities, this site is not for you.

#6 - HoochyMail !

HoochyMail is a service that allows you to create thrilling, sexy or X-rated story about yourself and your special someone. I am sure it can bring laughter if not shocked to your love one.

#7 - Pictures, Pictures, Pictures

If you do not have webcams yet, the next best thing to do is to email pictures. This will brighten up your love one if he/she had a bad day. Another great idea is to create photo album for each other. A great site is Webshots.com

#8 - Share a journal

You could create an online journal at online journal websites such as Xanga.com and LiveJournal.com These both have privacy controls so you can control who sees your journal. Through online journals, you could get closer to your love ones even if you both are world’s apart.

#9 - Learn new things about each other

Do you think that you have nothing more to learn about your partner ? Try this ... When it’s one of those days where you guys just can’t think of anything to talk about, try asking questions.

#10 - Sing karaoke together!

This is a cool idea I’ve come across. If you are a die hard karaoke singers, this might be some fun, and something you can do online with your love! You will need a webcam and mic for this one. There are many websites out there that offer this type of activity. Search for “Free Online Karaoke.”

#11 - Read a book together

This is great for couples who have limited time together. Find a book you think you both would enjoy and and agree to read a chapter every night. Reading together, can open up lots of discussion, and can help boost a relationship in which both people feel they have run out of things to talk about.

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Why its Good to be in a Long Distance Relationship ?

Why its Good to be in a Long Distance Relationship ?


There is a saying “distant makes the heart grew fonder”. Lets say today you run into someone and you like him/her. But he/she is staying half way across the country. One part of you will say, “damn, that’s too far”, another part will be saying, “well, this could just work out”.

How on earth can a long distant relationship be a good thing ? Let me uncover the mystery for you and maybe, you can consider having a long distant relationship.

1. ) Distance will make you appreciate one another more

We tend to take things for granted especially when we are meeting our love ones everyday. When your partner is world apart from you, you will need to use your imagination more than ever. Think of the things you are gonna do when you meet up. Turn on the music and stare up into the sky, now, do you wish your partner is by your side ?

2. ) More time for yourself

In a long distant relationship, you have more motivation, more time to exercise and keep yourself fit. Not only that, you can work more on your career and spend more time with your family. Think about all the things you can accomplish within a day.

3. ) Planning the next meeting is always exciting

It gives you something to look forward to and a chance to escape from your daily life. If traveling starts to get expensive, work together to find a cheaper means of travel and split the cost from time to time. I like to think of it as an adventure and at the end of the adventure is your wonderful treasure.

4. ) A long distant relationship can be a lot stronger than a normal one

Getting through a long distance relationship can be very rewarding for both of you. Think about all the courage it takes to trust somebody thousands of miles away and still be positive.

Give yourselves a round of applause. You now share a strength that is impenetrable.

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Top 10 "Must Know" Dating Tips For Guys

Top 10 "Must Know" Dating Tips For Guys

Dating for guys should be a relax and informal situation. However, most guys tend to tense up making it very difficult for themselves when it comes to dating. Here are top 10 tips that every man should know to make it alot more easier for you. Read on ...

Try to look at your best

If it’s the first date, it’s especially important to dress at your best. They say that the first impression will last forever, so why not also be the best impression ? Know what kind of clothes look good on you and try to achieve a cool, confidence appearance with that. The most important thing about dressing is that the shirt must be ironed and not wrinkled. Its stain free and look perfectly good on you.

Once you know the importance of dressing. The next is the scent. According to dating expert, a guy’s smell will either increase the attractiveness of the guy or turn the girl off. Remember to spay the right amount of perfume at the right place like neck, wrist and chest.

Finally, be clean shave, brush your teeth, style your hair or get a good haircut, check your face on the mirror and lastly cut your nails and now, you are ready to go.

Be on time

Patience is a virtue but being late is not an excuse. In fact its a sign for not caring. If the girl is late, try telling her to make it up by buying you a drink, but do it in a teaseful manner.

Find the best place

You and your date should agree on where to go beforehand. As an alpha male, you should have a plan and suggest where to meet. If both of you have different ideas on where to go, try to compromise. Let the ladies decide first and you will decide on the next date. Just remember to find a place where the two of will be comfortable while having fun at the same time.

Mind your manners

All that you know about manners and etiquette will be helpful during dating. Show that you are helpful and be a gentleman by opening the door, pulling out the chair for her. Believe me, all of things will be important with her.

Make sure you can spit good game

No one likes a boring date, so make an effort to make it interesting. Communicate with her, and get to know here. You do not have to impress her. Ask her questions and let her ask you too. Say the right thing at the right time and avoid embarrassing questions like your ex, her ex and politics.

Be spontaneous

The best dating tip i can offer to guys is being spontaneous. Do not have to be conscious of what will happen next or will the she be happy with the date. Relax, be laid back, have fun during the date and everything else will fall in to places.

The payment method

Most of the time, its the men who pay the bill. But there are instances where women likes to shoulder the bill. On the first date, there is no need to bring her to fine restaurant. Go for something you can afford and when the bill comes, just say, “Don’t worry I got it’s no big deal”. The only reason you take your date to the fine restraunt is when she is your girlfriend. Even then, you only take her once a while.

Make the Best of your date

Every date should be memorable and special. How to do it will depend on you and the girl itself. Make her feel special during the date and it will guarantee a follow up date.

The kissing game

The most asked question, shall I kiss my date ? Well, that decision lies in you my friend. However, there are some signs which the women gives out that may be a sign. For example, she’s looking at you with an intense gaze, she licks her lips while looking at you, she laughs as everything you say, or she does the hair toss. All these are signals that means kissing is around the corner.

The phone call

There are some rules that says that you should call her 2 days after the date. There is nothing wrong in calling her the following day but don’t make a big deal out of it. Simply give her a call and start a conversation where you left behind the day before so it’s still fresh in her mind.

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Dos and Don'ts for your First Date - For Men

Dos and Don'ts for your First Date - For Men


First, lets chat about the most important "dos" and "don'ts" for your first date.

Tip #1 - Be on time. It's rude to keep your date waiting.

Tip #2 - Make a great impression. Look your best because first impressions last !

Tip #3 - Best recommend your first meeting over dinner, preferably on Friday or Saturday night ... Also avoid catching a movie. Your first date should be over dinner at a quiet, romantic restaurant. It's best to meet early on Saturday evening so you will feel relaxed and have plenty of time to talk and get to know each other.

Tip #4 - Show your best side and keep your conversation light-hearted. Work on building chemistry.

Tip #5 - Be positive. Don't be grumpy or complain about things or people.

Tip #6 - Don't talk about past relationships.

Tip #7 - Don't talk about marriage, children or whether you want your spouse to stay at home to look after the kids.

Tip #8 - Don't ask personal questions such as : Why are you still single ? How much money you make ?

Tip #9 - If you don't feel any chemistry on the first meeting, don’t walk out on your date. Simply end it on a positive note.

Tip #10 - If you’re undecided after the first date, don’t be hasty to make up your mind. Feel free to ask some experts for help, discuss your concerns. You may also refer to the 300 creative and inexpensive dates ideas reveal by a love expert. Check out below.

Tip #11 - If you both decide to meet again, choose to do something different so that you will get to see each other in a new light. A casual afternoon strolls or picnic on the beach. This time, wear comfortable clothing so that you will feel more relaxed.

Tip #12 - For the third date, you should initiate the meeting.

Stay tune for the 2nd part of "Dos and Don'ts for your First Date - For Women".

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Dachshund

Dachshund

Breed Group : Hound

Color :

Solid red, sable, or cream; black and tan, chocolate and tan, wild boar and tan, gray and tan, or fawn and tan, brindle

Coat :

The Dachshund comes in three different varieties. The Smooth Haired Dachshund, Wirehaired Dachshund, and the Longhaired Dachshund. He also comes in two different sizes being standard and miniature. The Longhaired Dachshund has a long and straight coat, with hair slightly feathered and longer on the underbelly, ears, chest, and legs. The Smooth Coat has a straight, smooth, short, and glossy coat that should all be of equal length along the body of the dog. The Wirehaired has a coat of broken appearance with wiry, coarse, and harsh hair.

Overview :

The Dachshund was originally developed in German hundreds of years ago. They were originally bred for hunting Badger, hence the name Dachshund. "Dachs" is the German word for Bader. The elongated body and the shortened legs were bred into this dog to dig the prey out and go inside their burrows forcing them to leave their dens. The Miniature variety was bred to hunt hare and stoat. This breed has also been known to hunt foxes and otters along with the badger.

Character :

Dachshunds are a very clownish breed and can be very mischievous at times. A very intuitive dog, the Dachshund is now most commonly seen as a companion rather than a hunter. This breed loves to be around people and should never exhibit signs of aggression or timidity. The Dachshund is an all around friendly dog, is very outgoing, and is sure to steal the hearts of everyone he meets.

Temperament :

The Dachshund is a fun loving dog, tenacious, and lively, but can become jealous and be very irritable. This breed does not do well with smaller children, but can do very well with older and more considerate children. Due to his small size and tiny legs, this breed should not be placed in a home with larger dogs unless they were raised around each other. The Dachshund has the tendency to become jealous, however can do very well with many other toy breeds in the home providing they are not snippy.

Care :

The Long Haired variety requires quite a bit of grooming. Being that this dog is so low to the ground, he is prone to getting burrs, sticks, and twigs stuck in his coat which should be removed daily if any are present. Brushing of the coat should be done on a regular basis to prevent tangling and/or matting. The Smooth Haired variety doesn't require much grooming and would respond well to an occasional wipe down with a damp towel, or a harsh towel to remove any dead or loose hair.

Training :

The Dachshund can be stubborn at times, making training a little bit difficult for the average owner. This breed requires firm and consistent handling, but can be a little sensitive so he should always be corrected in a gentle manner, never harsh or this breed could become submissive and timid. Dachshunds respond best to a variety of training methods.

Activity :

The Dachshund can be lively and vivacous, however he does not need much exercise. A short walk per day would suffice for this short-bodied breed. The Dachshund tends to tire out easily so any exercise provided should be given at different times rather than one long walk. This breed is prone to back problems so high jumping and/or running should never be allowed.

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Chihuahua

Chihuahua

Breed Group : Toy

Color : Any

Coat :
The Chihuahua coat comes in two varieties: The Smooth and Long coat. The Smooth coat has a glossy, soft, and close coat which is full textured over the entire body, but quite scanty on the head and ears. The Long coat has a soft, longer coat that can be slightly curly or flat. This variety does have an under-coat. Either coat type comes in a variety of colors such as fawn, brown, black, and white. The coat may be solid in color, marked with splashes of color, or tri-color. They are an average shedder.

Overview :
The Chihuahua is the smallest of all breeds and has the distinction of being the oldest breed in America. They were named after the Chihuahua region in Mexico. It is believed that this breed descended from ancient breed that was larger in size and highly prized by Aztec royalty. The Chihuahua of today has a very fine bone structure, but are actually quite muscular.

Character :
The Chihuahua is a very individualistic breed. They each have their own unique personality, so only a few generalizations can be made. They are commonly referred to as a "Chi". They are energetic, graceful, and display a human-like expression. Their life span is the longest of any size dog.

Temperament :
The Chihuahua is deeply devoted and fiercely loyal. They typically become extremely attached to one or two people. They are bold, fearless, and highly protective of their masters. They thrive on inordinate amounts of attention. The Chihuahua is by nature gentle, loving, and sweet-tempered. They are wary of strangers and make excellent watchdogs. This breed is not well suited for children or other pets. However, they are sociable with their own kind. Chihuahuas are excellent companions in the right circumstances.

Care :
The Chihuahua requires minimal grooming. The Smooth coat variety requires only occasional brushing. The Long coat variety should be brushed several times a week with a soft bristle brush. Both varieties only need bathing once a month using a mild shampoo. Special care must be given to not get water into their ears as they are prone to ear infections. Dental hygiene is a must to prevent tooth loss. The health issues that affect this breed include slipped stifles, open font or soft spot, eye problems, and heart disease. The Chihuahua does not tolerate cold climates and must be protected when taken outside.

Training :
The Chihuahua can be difficult to train, but with patience, love, and consistency do well. They respond best to positive reinforcement. Chihuahuas can be housetrained by either the crate method or the paper training method. Early, extensive, and intensive socialization is an absolute must for this breed.

Activity :
The Chihuahua is an excellent apartment or condominium dweller. The majority of their exercise needs can be met indoors with toys or play sessions. However, they greatly enjoy going with their owners and benefit from daily walks. Using a harness is recommended instead of a leash is best given their delicate neck and bone structure.

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Bulldog

Bulldog

Breed Group : Non-Sporting

Color :
Brindle, solid white, red, or fawn, or any of these on a white background

Coat :
The coat of the Bulldog is close, straight, short, glossy, and smooth. It is of fine texture and there is no feathering, fringe, or curl. The color of the coat comes in red brindle, solid white, solid red, fawn, or fallow, piebald, and various colors of brindle. This breed is an average shedder.

Overview :
Descended from the Asiatic mastiff, the Bulldog was developed in Great Britain. Their primary function was that of a participant in the blood sport of bull baiting. They were also used against bears, other vicious carnivores, and lions. During the 19th century purebred Bulldogs were very rare due to the enactment of the anti-baiting laws. Today the Bulldog is a family companion and show dog.

Character :
The Bulldog is moderate in size, heavy, and built low to the ground. They are strong, kind, amiable, and courageous. This breed is not vicious or aggressive and is quite dignified. They possess a passive demeanor and have a quirky sense of humor.


Temperament :
This breed is loyal, exceedingly affectionate, and deeply devoted to their family. The Bulldog is dependable, gentle, and does well in a home with children. They will get along with other pets they have been raised with but may be rude and try to bully strange dogs. They thrive on human attention and are dependent upon it for their happiness and well-being. The Bulldog has excellent guarding abilities but will only bark when absolutely necessary. This breed is very possessive of food and should never be fed in the presence of children or pets.

Care :
The Bulldog needs occasional brushing with a firm bristle brush. Bathing or dry shampooing should only be done when necessary. This breed has a tendency to slobber and drool so daily cleaning of the face is a must. They are prone to such health issues as breathing problems, low tolerance to anesthesia, poor eyesight, skin infections, and hip and knee problems. Nearly all Bulldogs must be born by Caesarean section due to their large heads. They are adverse to weather extremes and are highly susceptible to heat stroke. This breed is also well known for their active gastrointestinal system.

Training :
Early socialization and obedience are a must for the Bulldog. They have a tendency to be hardheaded and stubborn. It is important that they be taught to know their owner is dominant. They do not respond to harsh or heavy-handed methods. Training must be done with firmness, fairness, patience, consistency, praise, and reward.

Activity :
The Bulldog must have daily exercise to stay fit. A securely leashed walk will suffice. They also benefit from and enjoy short family play sessions. This breed is well suited for apartment, condominium, and city dwelling. Bulldogs are very inactive indoors and do not need a yard.

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Boxer

Boxer

Breed Group : Working

Color :
Fawn and brindle, both with or without white flashing and black mask

Coat :
The Boxer has a shorthaired coat, which is shiny, smooth, and fits tightly to the body. The coat comes in such colors as fawn, red, and brindle, with "flashings" of white on their underbelly, chest, and all four feet. In some cases the "flashing" will appear on their face. The Boxer is an average shedder that sheds year round.

Overview :
The Boxer originated in Germany in the late 19th century. This breed's name was supposedly derived from the "boxing" motion they made with their front paws. Boxers are stocky and medium in size with strong jaws and a powerful bite. They are widely used in search and rescue, police work, and military work.

Character :
Boxers are lively, strong, and extremely loyal. They have an exceedingly high energy level. They carry themselves with pride, but are never arrogant. They have a stoic stance, and are intelligent, loving, delightful companions.

Temperament :
The Boxer is patient, dignified, and self-assured. They exhibit curiosity, but are wary of strangers. This breed is fearless and courageous if threatened. They are keenly alert and have a heightened sense of hearing, which make them excellent guard dogs. The Boxer adores children and other pets they have been raised with. They have an inordinate need for human companionship and do not like to be alone for extended periods of time. They are not well suited for a two career family. Insufficient attention may lead them into "bad" behavior in an attempt to be noticed.

Care :
The Boxers tight, short coat requires minimal grooming. Occasional brushing with a firm bristle brush is recommended. Bathing should only be done when absolutely necessary to ensure the essential oils are not stripped from their skin. The Boxer is typically clean and will groom themselves. This breed has some major health concerns such as cardiomyopathy, sub-aortic stenosis, and hip dysplasia. They may also be prone to tumors, epilepsy, allergies, and skin problems. A proper diet is absolutely essential due to their sensitive stomach and tendency toward excessive flatulence. The Boxer is an indoor pet as their short coat cannot protect them from cold climates.

Training :
The Boxer is clever and quick to learn. Obedience training is essential. They require a dominant owner capable of controlling them. They do not respond well to harsh treatment. Training must consist of fairness, firmness, and consistency. Boxers do well in competitive obedience and love to learn and perform tricks.

Activity :
The Boxer enjoys regular play and outdoor exercise. They thrive on playing with their family and do best with a medium sized fenced yard. It is important to keep them stimulated and occupied indoors to prevent destruction brought about by boredom. The Boxer will do okay in an apartment if they are sufficiently and regularly exercised.

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Beagle

Beagle

Breed Group : Hounds

Color :
Any true hound color ( tricolor )

Coat :
The Beagle has a hound type coat of medium length making grooming relatively easy for this breed. The hair should lie close to the body of the dog and should be hard, never soft or silky. The Beagle looks like a small English Foxhound. Beagles have a very sleek and shorthaired coat.

Overview :
The Beagle was originally bred for hunting purposes and does remarkably well. Being a scent hound, this breed has the tendency to follow his nose and ignore anything and everything so obedience training at an early age is a must. The Beagle originated as a cross between the Harrier and many other hounds in England. This breed does best when hunting hare, pheasant, or quail.

Character :
The Beagle is full of energy and does great in a family environment. They are very lively, active, and high energy making a wonderful childs companion given the proper socialization. This breed is alert and of even temperament and should never show signs of aggression or timidity. The Beagle can be very mischievous and very bold at times so proper precautions must be taken when training and/or socializing this fun loving breed.

Temperament :
The Beagle is an all around happy dog that makes a wonderful companion for many different families. This breed adapts to many different environments and lifestyles, if not all. The Beagle is very eager to please, and is very intelligent however training must be consistent as this breed tends to lose interest and focus on something that catches his attention. This breed does extremely well with children, and can do exceptionally well with other pets if socialized properly.

Care :
Beagles should require daily brushing to remove any dead or loose hair. A wipe down with a damp towel should suffice for the bathing aspect, however a rubber, wire, or hard bristled brush would work best for the brushing aspect. The ears of this breed should be cleaned on a regular basis, as this breed is prone to painful ears or ear infections. The nails of the Beagle should also be trimmed. This breed is an average shedder, which can be controlled with regular combing.

Training :
The Beagle is very intelligent and very eager to please making him a wonderful student to work with. However, they do tend to lose interest fairly quickly as they are bound to pick up a scent and follow it. This is when obedience training definitely comes in handy. If properly trained, the Beagle should listen however, if not trained properly, ignoring is a big problem. Consistency and firm yet gentle handling is a must if this breed is to excel as they so desperately want to.

Activity :
The Beagle is fairly active and loves long and vigorous walks, as they are the outdoorsy type. Considering they have a very strong hunting instinct, this breed should always be kept on a leash or in a fenced in yard as he is bound to run off if something catches his interest. Two long daily walks are recommended, as this breed seems to have great stamina and be somewhat tireless. The Beagle responds best in a home with a large yard.

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7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic

7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic

Here are the 7 proven ways to make your man more romantic from now on.

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1. ) Pick a time, probably after making love, and tell him that you want him to be more romantic in the future. It sounds dumb, I know, but why go around circles when you can just go direct ? If he loves you and want you to be happy, he will seriously consider to be more romantic in future, for you.

2. ) Reward him when he does something romantic. If he sent flowers gush over them and how thoughtful he is. men like to be told they have done well, and when you give them something special after they done something you like, they will continue to do it. That’s why they say men are like dogs - in a good way.

3. ) Send him a challenger. Point out what romantic things other guys are doing and see what happens. if you give them another man to compete with, they will constantly strive to outdo the other guy. Point out how amazingly romantic your friend’s boyfriend is, but don’t overdo it or he will get annoyed.

4. ) Do romantic things for him. Once he sees that you’re going out of your way to be romantic towards him, he will feel the urge to reciprocate.

5. ) Set up a romantic dinner each week. Once he have gone into the habit of doing romantic things like having a candle lit dinner, he will do it on his own without your supervision. But first, you must let him know your vision of romance.

6. ) Rent some romantic videos and point out what those men are doing that are romantic. Don’t have to get him to do the exact same thing but subtly point them out. he will eventually get your hint and start treating your romantically.

7. ) Convince him that being romantic does not make him any less of a man. Some guys think being romantic is not manly and isn’t something they want their friends to know about. Let him know that he doesn’t have to tell the guys he brought you flowers and took a bubble bath with you.

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How To Use Romance To Work On Your Relationship

How To Use Romance To Work On Your Relationship

There will always be some men who will never understand the importance of romance. They could be ignorant or silly or just can’t be bothered to invest any time in romance. However, they turn out to be the foolish ones who tend to get what they want the hard way.

There are some men who know about the secrets of romance. For example, in the reality show The Bachelor, its obvious that those who stick around the longest or eventually choosen are those that are romantic. Why is that so ? Not because they are good looking, rich or have great jobs, but because they know that romance is very important in a relationship. So what do these romantic guys do ? Well, it can be simple things like picking flowers, looking at the stars or lighting candles, picnic or a nice dinner, nothing that is too difficult for average men.

I believe its true that its the small things that matter most to women when it comes to been romantic.

In my definition, romance is a creation of atmosphere where she feels unconditionally loved and appreciated. Simple things aveage Joe can do would be turn down the lights, turn on the radio, take her by the hand and ask her to dance in the kitchen. That’s romance.

Or how about handing her a wild flower, ask her to go on a stroll with you and hold hands. That’s romance too. What will she be feeling ? At that moment, she will be the happiest woman on earth, because she feel loved and appreciated.

Romance can also produce butterflies in her stomach. The passion and excitement she will be feeling for you not only manifest itself in sex but will also spill over into other aspects of the relationship.

Sometimes it takes a few romantic encounters to get the best results, she may not be used to it, she may have been hurt by you and think you’re only doing it for sex. Hang in there, the payoff is within reach.

Above all, you will have a fulfilling relationship and you will have fun discovering each other.

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What Women Would Like to Hear You Say in a Relationship ?

What Women Would Like to Hear You Say in a Relationship ?

It is no secret that every women would like to hear some nice words from her man. No matter how much you know you love your woman, if you never tell her some things once in a while, there will be no convincing her that you love her. Women are emotional beings and once in a while, they would be happy if told some sweet words especially those that can sweep them off their feet. As we know, words are very powerful tools that can be use to make a break a person.

The same goes to a relationship. Women love to be told that you are sorry, if you made a mistake. You would be surprise what a simple apology can do to you and your relationship with your woman. When apologising, say it like you mean it ... It would be worse if you say it while walking away as if it doesn’t matter. Look at her eyes and tell her you are sorry.

After being together with a woman for a long time, its natural that you will notice some changes in her. Age might be catching up on her and she knows it. If you are going to remind her about it, I don’t think that is going to help in the relationship. Instead, tell your woman that she is the most beautiful woman you ever know and that she looks vibrant and sexy. Tell her that she is attractive and that you love her, even if her skin has started wrinkling and she is a shadow of what she used to be ten years ago do not tell her the truth. Find some sweet words that emphasise she is youthful and is a joy to be with.

A woman like to be thank once in a while, but this does not mean you have to thank her every now and then, which you still could. You should take time to say thank you and appreciate the things she does for you. If possible, why not take her out specifically to thank her. You could thank her for sticking around with you when you were in difficult situation. Thank her for being the only one who ever believe in you when others are in doubt of you. Thanking her is going to make the relationship a much better one. Its true that everyone wants to be thank and appreciated once in a while.

Just because you have married her and have been together with her for some time, it does not give you a reason to stop telling her you love her and you still want her and desire her like the first time you met her. Even if this is not true ; once in a while tell your woman she is the one you want and if you were to choose all over again you would still choose her again. Tell your woman some sweet words, practice this all the time and you will be surprised at how your relationship will change to the better.

Like i said before, good words can make a good relationship. Make use of your words today.

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Carry Yourself With The Body Language of an Alpha Male

Carry Yourself With The Body Language of an Alpha Male

Look ! They seem to have some sort of aura around them that made women swoon to them.

You too can develop this aura and have women attracted to you and increase your dating success.

Have you ever notice how your body look when you are depress or feel like crap ? You will look down on the ground and fold your arms and other non-alpha male behaviors start to show. But when you have girls all over you, do you notice you have a different kind of body language ?

Read on for some of the body language of the alpha male.

1. ) Relax - For you to be in the alpha male state, relax is the most important mental state.

Don’t let yourself feel worried. Let all your worries go since you can’t solve them by worrying.

Breathe through your abdomen rather than your chest. ( When you breathe, imagine that you’re bringing air down to your stomach. Feel your belly rise and fall as you breathe. )

Avoid non-verbal behavior that shows you are worried. For example, raising your shoulder, fidgeting etc ...

Relax all your muscles and slow down your movement by a notch. Except on rare occassions where there is a pressing emergency, you will see that alpha males move unhurriedly, as if there is nothing bothering them and they are in control of the time.

Relax your eyes and eyelids. Beta males lift their eye lids open because they are nevous, their eyes will dart the surrounding. Instead of doing that, alpha male should look straight ahead.

Only give your attention to things that interest you. While you are out and about, use affirmations such as “I am sexual, I am relax and I am in control”.

If someone try to get your attention, move your head slowly.

2. ) Feel masculine and powerful - Start visualizing you are a masculine man. Start doing things in your life that makes you feel masculine. Like lifting weights, working out with a punching bag.

3. ) Realize that you are a man of high value - Start focusing on your qualities instead of your deficiencies. You can be as arrogant as you want if that means you can develop massive self-confidence. Start holding thoughts like “I am the greatest, and people count themselve lucky to have me around them”. Treat people as if they are in awe of you rben before they met you.

4. ) Feel comfortable about yourself - An alpha male is happy with or without any particular woman, since he views women as sources of fun in his life—no more and no less. Take the mindset that of course women want you, but it’s no big deal either way.

5. ) Spread out your body - Start taking up space with your arms, legs and chest. Look proud and keep your head up.

By becoming an alpha male, you will increase your chance of attracting women and your change of a successful date.

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The Secret Scientists Say Will Guarantee a Happy Marriage

The Secret Scientists Say Will Guarantee a Happy Marriage

Anybody reading this hoping for a quick fix formula for a successful marriage, look away now.

According to a poll of 4,000 married couples, the secret to a happy marriage is spending at least 22 periods of ‘quality time’ together a month, with at least seven cosy nights in and two proper dinner dates.

Cuddles, it seems hold the key, with couples who cuddle four times a day rating their marriage as very happy.

And romantic gestures such as running a nice bath or a back massage are necessary every 10 days.

Those who described themselves as ‘very happy’ say the key to a successful partnership lies in spending lots of quality time together.

“Affection, cuddles and romantic gestures are part of a whole romantic scene which is desired by those entering a relationship.” said Chief Educational Psychologist, Dr Ludwig F.Lowenstein.

"They are the safe gestures which say - ‘I like you, I am glad to be with you, I like and appreciate your support and care".

"In this busy world we often take our partners for granted whilst we get on with our daily struggles of work and rearing a family".

"We tend to forget the importance of hugs when familiarity becomes part of our lives, and as the saying goes ‘familiarity breeds contempt’, but if affection, cuddles and romantic gestures become part of our relationship then the relationship will become strong and remain strong".

The survey revealed that the average happy couple enjoy two romantic walks, one visit to the pub and one trip to the cinema every month.

They will also spend a few romantic evenings in - eating dinner by candlelight three times a month, engaging in a proper conversation six times a month and curling up in front of the TV together seven times a month.

Flowers & Chocolates

Twice a month husband and wife should shower each other with surprise gifts - such as flowers and chocolates, or more personal items such as a soppy poem or a favourite piece of music.

A good marriage would also allow each partner to enjoy a night away from home without the other, in the company of their own friends.

Simple acts such as cleaning the house from top to bottom without being asked, or making breakfast in bed show respect for the other spouse.

And the loved-up pair will pack their bags to enjoy two short breaks in the UK and two longer holidays abroad every year.

Jim Forward of Warner Leisure Hotels, said : "Cuddles and romantic weekends away are key for a great relationship and now it’s been confirmed. It proves how important it is for couples to make time for each other".

"A successful relationship is built on trust and love for each other. This should be communicated or shown whenever couples have the chance".

"But Brits are increasingly becoming rushed off their feet and it’s sometimes easy to forget to fully appreciate your ‘other half".

A staggering 98 per cent of the ‘very happy’ couples say they feel really lucky to be in such a stable relationship - and 94 per cent genuinely believe no other relationship is as solid as theirs.

The Key to Long Lasting Relationship :

Cuddles : 4 a day

Romantic gestures : 3 a month

Dinner dates : 2 a month

Romantic walks : 2 a month

Romantic gifts : 2 a month

Home cooked romantic meals : 3 a month

Breakfast in bed : 1 a month

Proper conversation : 6 a month

Trip to the pub : 1 a month

Cosy evenings in : 7 a month

Clean house from top to bottom : 3 a month

Night out without each other : 1 a month

Cinema or theatre : 1 a month

Short UK break : 2 a year

Holiday : 2 a year

After reading this article, I am fully convince that it does take time and effort to build a solid relationship. A lot of times relationship falls apart due to lack of communication. Yes, hugs and kisses are a form of non-verbal communication.

Remember to have a check list and take your daily dose of intimacy. Have a great relationship !

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Understanding Men

Understanding Men


Understand men can be a difficult and frustrating endeavor even for the most educated women. When a women like a men, she will do the best to be appealing to him. However, unless you completely understand what a men truly want in a women, its not going to be an easy task to win his heart. Although each men is unique and find different women attractive, there are some common traits that all men have. That could be an advantage for women who are trying hard to win a man’s heart.

Humor is one traits men love about women. Men love women who can laugh at herself and the world. This does not mean that she need to make fun of herself or anybody but should be light hearted and witty. If a woman is too serious, men will perceive her as icy cold or a drama queen. If a woman keeps giggling, she maybe perceive as a little ditz. Instead, just be open to laughter and be clever and witty and you will be able to attract men.

Intelligent is another highly sought after qualities in women. You do not have to have a college degree to be intelligent. Just keep abreast of the current news. Know what is happening around the world today. If a man start a conversation, you’ve to be sure that you can hold the conversation well with genuine replies. Read the newspaper, watch the news and soak up society, you will benefit a great deal by keeping on top of what is happening today.

Women who are independent are also appealing to men. Years ago, the ideal women are the ones who have no problem giving up their career for the sake of the family. However, most men realize that women have their own career pursuit and would not forgo it. Being completely independent financially is what men loves about women. Men wants a women to embrace what she does for a living and find fulfillment in it.

On the same token, self-confident women are always the focus of men. Men find women appealing when she can embrace every part of herself including her flaws.

Now that you understand exactly what men love in women you are well on your way to having the man of your dreams adore you. Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. Good luck!

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30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart

30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart

I believe that the words you use have power. It can inspire and captivate a man and have him notice you. What are the words you can use to get his attention ?

Just like women who like to be praise and appreciated and told that they have a beautiful face ? They do feel happy when receiving such compliments from men. The same goes to men. What do men like to hear from women ?

Words men love to hear ...

1. ) When can we meet again ?
2. ) I can really trust in you
3. ) How do you know all this ? I’m so impressed
4. ) I’ve never met any man like you before
5. ) I like who I am when I’m with you
6. ) I feel honored to know you
7. ) You’re really so humorous !
8. ) You look wonderful/great with your new hair look
9. ) Are you really still single ?
10. ) I like confident guys like you
11. ) Hey, you have special talent
12. ) I believe you can make it
13. ) I believe in you when you tell me ...
14. ) You sure can do it
15. ) You have such a great idea
16. ) You are so different from other men
17. ) I love the way you look at things
18. ) You are good at doing things like that
19. ) Tell me more. I love to hear what you think
20. ) I’m happy when I’m with you
21. ) I agree what you said
22. ) You’re great/amazing guy
23. ) I’m speechless
24. ) I like your jokes
25. ) I love to be with you
26. ) Thank you
27. ) It’s really nice talking with you
28. ) You got a nice car
29. ) You make me laugh
30. ) You got a nice smile

It’s hard to believe that ordinary women out there have the ability to melt the men’s heart. Learn the secrets to captivate a man’s heart, appeal to their needs and desires. Simply phrases or compliments will surely bring a smile onto his face.

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Is it Possible to Have a Relationship Without Sex ?

Is it Possible to Have a Relationship Without Sex ?

Let’s start with understanding what love is not. Well, it is not intimidation, abuse, harassment, manipulation, physical or emotional violence. It says in the bible that love is always kind and patient. Therefore, forcing someone to do something against her will is not love, it’s control. And the urge of being control is fear. The fear of being rejected or not getting something.

Actually, the opposite of love is not hate, its fear. When fear is present, love will not be possible because fear is there to block it. A lot of people are afraid to love because they are afraid of being hurt and disappointed. However, rejection will only hurt you if you reject yourself. If you start loving yourself unconditionally, then unrequited love will not affect you negatively because you will not dwell on it. You will quickly get over it and quickly find someone who will reciprocate your love.

Remember, your most important love relationship is with yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you are unlikely to love anyone else. So, start making peace yourself today and start loving yourself all over again.

Scientist have proven that falling in love is a chemical reaction. Hormones will create confusion in your body, that you believe that you have finally found your soulmate. Your heart rate will increases, you will blush and start shaking when he or she talks to you. You are unable to sleep at night and you can’t eat, which is great if you want to lose weight. Or maybe you do the opposite and suddenly become an emotional eater, stuffing yourself with alot of food so that you can put that person out of your mind, for at least awhile.

I would probably be easier to begin a relationship without being in love, because your emotions won’t wreck havoc and you can keep a clear head. This chaos is not always a nice feeling because it could bring to surface the insecurity, which can lead to pain and suffering. Being in love is actually a sexual feeling. We are attached to each other physically, which is common, since we are programmed that way.

However, if being in love means being in lust, then according to statistics, it doesn’t last very long. The feeling evaporates after a few years, The madness of ripping each other’s clothes off will become a memory, so is staying in bed all day making love.

It is actually possible to be in love without the element of sex. Platonic love can be intimate and affectionate, without being sexual. Much more than just physical attraction, love is about respecting and understanding each other. It is about trust and accepting the other person as they are.

Sure, you can fall in love instantly, but will it last ? Don’t you think love at first sight is an illusion, since I can only see what I see ? Then reality bite, I am in for a shock, this man or this woman who seem perfect 3 days ago have so many defects. And he or she is probably thinking the same about me. We are both disillusioned and now even the sex doesn’t keep us together anymore, as the physical passion have evaporated.

Love itself is a commitment. It grows overtime, especially when people are there for each other, where they will listen and understand each other. Communication is important. It is ok to have disagreements sometimes as long as it doesn’t degenerate into fights.

Dating someone you love like a friend means you’re compatible on more levels than just the physical one. True love is similar to friendship. The important thing is to establish trust and good communication. Sex is an added bonus, as it is the culmination of your love for each other. But even without sex, it is possible to have a relationship, as long as there is affection and true understanding, and a willingness to share.

A desire to give and receive love will lead us towards a satisfying relationship, in which commitment plays the biggest role. Sex is not compulsory. The main ingredients are trust, acceptance, understanding, respect and appreciation. These can be found in friendship as well, which is why friendship is the best foundation for true love.

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How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch

How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch

Most People have forgotten the simplest lovemaking ‘method’ of all : the unbelievable power of human touch. Even when the opportunity arises in lovemaking sessions for us to offer and receive the satisfaction of the caress, we tend to get caught up in the drive to ejaculatory orgasms.

Making Lovemaking as a Real Love Creating Experience

I acknowledged, ejaculatory orgasms produce intense pleasure, but without the slow build up of conscious touch, it is a bit like a sneeze in the groin, like a release of tension, than a very deep satisfying experience that “makes love grow”.

Regrettably for most people, sex encounters become more mutual masturbation than real love building experiences.

Tantra invites us to take time to thoroughly touch one another to increase arousal across the entire body. Our skin is our biggest organ and needs caring affection and attention. But the Tantric touch, the conscious touch, goes deeper than the skin.

Using Conscious Touch

“Conscious touch” means that you are not thinking of something else. Your focus is fully on your lover, how they inhale and how they take in your touch. Your conscious touch stirs up their energy, stiring up both the heart and the flow of sexual energy in the form of weak electronic waves that continue to build up until they become bigger waves that encompass the entire body.

Sometimes we touch how we want to be touched instead of tuning in to see how our partner likes it. If you realize your lover caught up in their own thoughts, notice how you are touching them. Ask if they would prefer a softer or stronger, slower or faster touch. This will get their attention back, and you will get an opportunity to provide them the touch they desire.

Touch is both sensuous and healing. The most apparent emissaries of love are our arms, and the focal points where love flows are the palms. When we touch our partner, we help them heal from any struggles or unhappiness they experience during the day, and they sense that life is worth living just to be caress by you.

Connecting Your Intention With Your Breath

When you connect your intention to your breath, you will sense their muscles sucking in that focus, all through the bones. Yes, bones need affection and attention too, and your intention connected with your breath is attractive enough to penetrate deeply.

Tantric people know that touching a lover does not have to end in ejaculation. Some women cringe when their men begin touching them because they know it will end up in intercourse and they might not be in the mood.

I invite men to set up a “just touching time” with your beloved. Then, even when she gets aroused you keep your agreement of “just touching” during that time. By doing this often, you create trust in your word, and she will be caress with joy every time you do so.

And I assure you that both of you will have an incredibly great time caressing and making love.

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