The Art of Body Language

The Art of Body Language

Body language is a powerful communication tool. Someone who knows how to read them sees intentions more clearly than words can do. Women are better used to this language than men and they do it quite skilfully.

The more eye contact the woman makes with the target, the more she shows interest. When the woman looks at the man directly, and the man catches her doing it, she will lower her eyes and smile indicating interest, happiness and embarrassment that he caught her stare. This is a sure sign of attraction.

Conversely, if a man looks at the woman, and she looks away or any some other things like ceiling and walls, that is a definite sign of disinterest. It’s good to know that eye movements show a lot.

The hands can send various clear messages. Hands open convey that the woman is open to him. Starting any conversation will be good. She may also touch him “accidentally” to convey interest. Psychology can help us get deeper into that. On the other hand, hands which are closed or not shown, shows signs of lack of interest.

As we know, posture conveys a lot about a person. An open posture shows that the person is comfortable in his/her own skin and is an open person. Turning towards the man she is talking with and leaning forward shows interest. She may also cross then uncross her legs, tilt her head slightly. These, too, are signs of interest. If she crosses her arms, hold her drink high in front of her or turns her body away, it’s time to move on because it shows either insecurity of her or merely signs of certain disinterest.

A good way to build rapport is to mirror the other person’s body movements. By doing so, we are trying to sync with the other person, and make us feel like we are similar. This is a good way to build attraction, because the person will feel close to you. As mentioned above, good eye contact is necessary. But avoid fidgety movements because it shows insecurity.

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Carry Yourself With The Body Language of an Alpha Male

Carry Yourself With The Body Language of an Alpha Male

Look ! They seem to have some sort of aura around them that made women swoon to them.

You too can develop this aura and have women attracted to you and increase your dating success.

Have you ever notice how your body look when you are depress or feel like crap ? You will look down on the ground and fold your arms and other non-alpha male behaviors start to show. But when you have girls all over you, do you notice you have a different kind of body language ?

Read on for some of the body language of the alpha male.

1. ) Relax - For you to be in the alpha male state, relax is the most important mental state.

Don’t let yourself feel worried. Let all your worries go since you can’t solve them by worrying.

Breathe through your abdomen rather than your chest. ( When you breathe, imagine that you’re bringing air down to your stomach. Feel your belly rise and fall as you breathe. )

Avoid non-verbal behavior that shows you are worried. For example, raising your shoulder, fidgeting etc ...

Relax all your muscles and slow down your movement by a notch. Except on rare occassions where there is a pressing emergency, you will see that alpha males move unhurriedly, as if there is nothing bothering them and they are in control of the time.

Relax your eyes and eyelids. Beta males lift their eye lids open because they are nevous, their eyes will dart the surrounding. Instead of doing that, alpha male should look straight ahead.

Only give your attention to things that interest you. While you are out and about, use affirmations such as “I am sexual, I am relax and I am in control”.

If someone try to get your attention, move your head slowly.

2. ) Feel masculine and powerful - Start visualizing you are a masculine man. Start doing things in your life that makes you feel masculine. Like lifting weights, working out with a punching bag.

3. ) Realize that you are a man of high value - Start focusing on your qualities instead of your deficiencies. You can be as arrogant as you want if that means you can develop massive self-confidence. Start holding thoughts like “I am the greatest, and people count themselve lucky to have me around them”. Treat people as if they are in awe of you rben before they met you.

4. ) Feel comfortable about yourself - An alpha male is happy with or without any particular woman, since he views women as sources of fun in his life—no more and no less. Take the mindset that of course women want you, but it’s no big deal either way.

5. ) Spread out your body - Start taking up space with your arms, legs and chest. Look proud and keep your head up.

By becoming an alpha male, you will increase your chance of attracting women and your change of a successful date.

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Good Luck !

Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

P.S. : Oprah, Love Expert Reveals The 300 Creative and Inexpensive Date Ideas That People Are Using To Leave Great Impressions, Rekindle Relationships and Have More Fun ! Check it out here ...