Friday, November 21, 2008

7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic

7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic


Here are the 7 proven ways to make your man more romantic from now on.
Read on ...

1. ) Pick a time, probably after making love, and tell him that you want him to be more romantic in the future. It sounds dumb, I know, but why go around circles when you can just go direct ? If he loves you and want you to be happy, he will seriously consider to be more romantic in future, for you.

2. ) Reward him when he does something romantic. If he sent flowers gush over them and how thoughtful he is. men like to be told they have done well, and when you give them something special after they done something you like, they will continue to do it. That’s why they say men are like dogs - in a good way.

3. ) Send him a challenger. Point out what romantic things other guys are doing and see what happens. if you give them another man to compete with, they will constantly strive to outdo the other guy. Point out how amazingly romantic your friend’s boyfriend is, but don’t overdo it or he will get annoyed.

4. ) Do romantic things for him. Once he sees that you’re going out of your way to be romantic towards him, he will feel the urge to reciprocate.

5. ) Set up a romantic dinner each week. Once he have gone into the habit of doing romantic things like having a candle lit dinner, he will do it on his own without your supervision. But first, you must let him know your vision of romance.

6. ) Rent some romantic videos and point out what those men are doing that are romantic. Don’t have to get him to do the exact same thing but subtly point them out. he will eventually get your hint and start treating your romantically.

7. ) Convince him that being romantic does not make him any less of a man. Some guys think being romantic is not manly and isn’t something they want their friends to know about. Let him know that he doesn’t have to tell the guys he brought you flowers and took a bubble bath with you.

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Wingcent Ning
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Singapore

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How To Use Romance To Work On Your Relationship

How To Use Romance To Work On Your Relationship


There will always be some men who will never understand the importance of romance. They could be ignorant or silly or just can’t be bothered to invest any time in romance. However, they turn out to be the foolish ones who tend to get what they want the hard way.

There are some men who know about the secrets of romance. For example, in the reality show The Bachelor, its obvious that those who stick around the longest or eventually choosen are those that are romantic. Why is that so ? Not because they are good looking, rich or have great jobs, but because they know that romance is very important in a relationship. So what do these romantic guys do ? Well, it can be simple things like picking flowers, looking at the stars or lighting candles, picnic or a nice dinner, nothing that is too difficult for average men.

I believe its true that its the small things that matter most to women when it comes to been romantic.

In my definition, romance is a creation of atmosphere where she feels unconditionally loved and appreciated. Simple things aveage Joe can do would be turn down the lights, turn on the radio, take her by the hand and ask her to dance in the kitchen. That’s romance.

Or how about handing her a wild flower, ask her to go on a stroll with you and hold hands. That’s romance too. What will she be feeling ? At that moment, she will be the happiest woman on earth, because she feel loved and appreciated.

Romance can also produce butterflies in her stomach. The passion and excitement she will be feeling for you not only manifest itself in sex but will also spill over into other aspects of the relationship.

Sometimes it takes a few romantic encounters to get the best results, she may not be used to it, she may have been hurt by you and think you’re only doing it for sex. Hang in there, the payoff is within reach.

Above all, you will have a fulfilling relationship and you will have fun discovering each other.

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Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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What Women Would Like to Hear You Say in a Relationship ?

What Women Would Like to Hear You Say in a Relationship ?


It is no secret that every women would like to hear some nice words from her man. No matter how much you know you love your woman, if you never tell her some things once in a while, there will be no convincing her that you love her. Women are emotional beings and once in a while, they would be happy if told some sweet words especially those that can sweep them off their feet. As we know, words are very powerful tools that can be use to make a break a person.

The same goes to a relationship. Women love to be told that you are sorry, if you made a mistake. You would be surprise what a simple apology can do to you and your relationship with your woman. When apologising, say it like you mean it ... It would be worse if you say it while walking away as if it doesn’t matter. Look at her eyes and tell her you are sorry.

After being together with a woman for a long time, its natural that you will notice some changes in her. Age might be catching up on her and she knows it. If you are going to remind her about it, I don’t think that is going to help in the relationship. Instead, tell your woman that she is the most beautiful woman you ever know and that she looks vibrant and sexy. Tell her that she is attractive and that you love her, even if her skin has started wrinkling and she is a shadow of what she used to be ten years ago do not tell her the truth. Find some sweet words that emphasise she is youthful and is a joy to be with.

A woman like to be thank once in a while, but this does not mean you have to thank her every now and then, which you still could. You should take time to say thank you and appreciate the things she does for you. If possible, why not take her out specifically to thank her. You could thank her for sticking around with you when you were in difficult situation. Thank her for being the only one who ever believe in you when others are in doubt of you. Thanking her is going to make the relationship a much better one. Its true that everyone wants to be thank and appreciated once in a while.

Just because you have married her and have been together with her for some time, it does not give you a reason to stop telling her you love her and you still want her and desire her like the first time you met her. Even if this is not true ; once in a while tell your woman she is the one you want and if you were to choose all over again you would still choose her again. Tell your woman some sweet words, practice this all the time and you will be surprised at how your relationship will change to the better.

Like i said before, good words can make a good relationship. Make use of your words today.

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Wingcent Ning
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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Carry Yourself With The Body Language of an Alpha Male

Carry Yourself With The Body Language of an Alpha Male


Look ! They seem to have some sort of aura around them that made women swoon to them.

You too can develop this aura and have women attracted to you and increase your dating success.

Have you ever notice how your body look when you are depress or feel like crap ? You will look down on the ground and fold your arms and other non-alpha male behaviors start to show. But when you have girls all over you, do you notice you have a different kind of body language ?

Read on for some of the body language of the alpha male.

1. ) Relax - For you to be in the alpha male state, relax is the most important mental state.

Don’t let yourself feel worried. Let all your worries go since you can’t solve them by worrying.

Breathe through your abdomen rather than your chest. ( When you breathe, imagine that you’re bringing air down to your stomach. Feel your belly rise and fall as you breathe. )

Avoid non-verbal behavior that shows you are worried. For example, raising your shoulder, fidgeting etc ...

Relax all your muscles and slow down your movement by a notch. Except on rare occassions where there is a pressing emergency, you will see that alpha males move unhurriedly, as if there is nothing bothering them and they are in control of the time.

Relax your eyes and eyelids. Beta males lift their eye lids open because they are nevous, their eyes will dart the surrounding. Instead of doing that, alpha male should look straight ahead.

Only give your attention to things that interest you. While you are out and about, use affirmations such as “I am sexual, I am relax and I am in control”.

If someone try to get your attention, move your head slowly.

2. ) Feel masculine and powerful - Start visualizing you are a masculine man. Start doing things in your life that makes you feel masculine. Like lifting weights, working out with a punching bag.

3. ) Realize that you are a man of high value - Start focusing on your qualities instead of your deficiencies. You can be as arrogant as you want if that means you can develop massive self-confidence. Start holding thoughts like “I am the greatest, and people count themselve lucky to have me around them”. Treat people as if they are in awe of you rben before they met you.

4. ) Feel comfortable about yourself - An alpha male is happy with or without any particular woman, since he views women as sources of fun in his life—no more and no less. Take the mindset that of course women want you, but it’s no big deal either way.

5. ) Spread out your body - Start taking up space with your arms, legs and chest. Look proud and keep your head up.

By becoming an alpha male, you will increase your chance of attracting women and your change of a successful date.

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Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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The Secret Scientists Say Will Guarantee a Happy Marriage

The Secret Scientists Say Will Guarantee a Happy Marriage


Anybody reading this hoping for a quick fix formula for a successful marriage, look away now.

According to a poll of 4,000 married couples, the secret to a happy marriage is spending at least 22 periods of ‘quality time’ together a month, with at least seven cosy nights in and two proper dinner dates.

Cuddles, it seems hold the key, with couples who cuddle four times a day rating their marriage as very happy.

And romantic gestures such as running a nice bath or a back massage are necessary every 10 days.

Those who described themselves as ‘very happy’ say the key to a successful partnership lies in spending lots of quality time together.

“Affection, cuddles and romantic gestures are part of a whole romantic scene which is desired by those entering a relationship.” said Chief Educational Psychologist, Dr Ludwig F.Lowenstein.


"They are the safe gestures which say - ‘I like you, I am glad to be with you, I like and appreciate your support and care".

"In this busy world we often take our partners for granted whilst we get on with our daily struggles of work and rearing a family".

"We tend to forget the importance of hugs when familiarity becomes part of our lives, and as the saying goes ‘familiarity breeds contempt’, but if affection, cuddles and romantic gestures become part of our relationship then the relationship will become strong and remain strong".

The survey revealed that the average happy couple enjoy two romantic walks, one visit to the pub and one trip to the cinema every month.

They will also spend a few romantic evenings in - eating dinner by candlelight three times a month, engaging in a proper conversation six times a month and curling up in front of the TV together seven times a month.

Flowers & Chocolates

Twice a month husband and wife should shower each other with surprise gifts - such as flowers and chocolates, or more personal items such as a soppy poem or a favourite piece of music.

A good marriage would also allow each partner to enjoy a night away from home without the other, in the company of their own friends.


Simple acts such as cleaning the house from top to bottom without being asked, or making breakfast in bed show respect for the other spouse.

And the loved-up pair will pack their bags to enjoy two short breaks in the UK and two longer holidays abroad every year.

Jim Forward of Warner Leisure Hotels, said : "Cuddles and romantic weekends away are key for a great relationship and now it’s been confirmed. It proves how important it is for couples to make time for each other".

"A successful relationship is built on trust and love for each other. This should be communicated or shown whenever couples have the chance".

"But Brits are increasingly becoming rushed off their feet and it’s sometimes easy to forget to fully appreciate your ‘other half".

A staggering 98 per cent of the ‘very happy’ couples say they feel really lucky to be in such a stable relationship - and 94 per cent genuinely believe no other relationship is as solid as theirs.

The Key to Long Lasting Relationship :

Cuddles : 4 a day

Romantic gestures : 3 a month

Dinner dates : 2 a month

Romantic walks : 2 a month

Romantic gifts : 2 a month

Home cooked romantic meals : 3 a month

Breakfast in bed : 1 a month

Proper conversation : 6 a month

Trip to the pub : 1 a month

Cosy evenings in : 7 a month

Clean house from top to bottom : 3 a month

Night out without each other : 1 a month

Cinema or theatre : 1 a month

Short UK break : 2 a year

Holiday : 2 a year

After reading this article, I am fully convince that it does take time and effort to build a solid relationship. A lot of times relationship falls apart due to lack of communication. Yes, hugs and kisses are a form of non-verbal communication.

Remember to have a check list and take your daily dose of intimacy. Have a great relationship !

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Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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Understanding Men

Understanding Men


Understand men can be a difficult and frustrating endeavor even for the most educated women. When a women like a men, she will do the best to be appealing to him. However, unless you completely understand what a men truly want in a women, its not going to be an easy task to win his heart. Although each men is unique and find different women attractive, there are some common traits that all men have. That could be an advantage for women who are trying hard to win a man’s heart.

Humor is one traits men love about women. Men love women who can laugh at herself and the world. This does not mean that she need to make fun of herself or anybody but should be light hearted and witty. If a woman is too serious, men will perceive her as icy cold or a drama queen. If a woman keeps giggling, she maybe perceive as a little ditz. Instead, just be open to laughter and be clever and witty and you will be able to attract men.

Intelligent is another highly sought after qualities in women. You do not have to have a college degree to be intelligent. Just keep abreast of the current news. Know what is happening around the world today. If a man start a conversation, you’ve to be sure that you can hold the conversation well with genuine replies. Read the newspaper, watch the news and soak up society, you will benefit a great deal by keeping on top of what is happening today.

Women who are independent are also appealing to men. Years ago, the ideal women are the ones who have no problem giving up their career for the sake of the family. However, most men realize that women have their own career pursuit and would not forgo it. Being completely independent financially is what men loves about women. Men wants a women to embrace what she does for a living and find fulfillment in it.

On the same token, self-confident women are always the focus of men. Men find women appealing when she can embrace every part of herself including her flaws.

Now that you understand exactly what men love in women you are well on your way to having the man of your dreams adore you. Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. Good luck!

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Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore


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30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart

30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart


I believe that the words you use have power. It can inspire and captivate a man and have him notice you. What are the words you can use to get his attention ?

Just like women who like to be praise and appreciated and told that they have a beautiful face ? They do feel happy when receiving such compliments from men. The same goes to men. What do men like to hear from women ?

Words men love to hear ...

1. ) When can we meet again ?
2. ) I can really trust in you
3. ) How do you know all this ? I’m so impressed
4. ) I’ve never met any man like you before
5. ) I like who I am when I’m with you
6. ) I feel honored to know you
7. ) You’re really so humorous !
8. ) You look wonderful/great with your new hair look
9. ) Are you really still single ?
10. ) I like confident guys like you
11. ) Hey, you have special talent
12. ) I believe you can make it
13. ) I believe in you when you tell me ...
14. ) You sure can do it
15. ) You have such a great idea
16. ) You are so different from other men
17. ) I love the way you look at things
18. ) You are good at doing things like that
19. ) Tell me more. I love to hear what you think
20. ) I’m happy when I’m with you
21. ) I agree what you said
22. ) You’re great/amazing guy
23. ) I’m speechless
24. ) I like your jokes
25. ) I love to be with you
26. ) Thank you
27. ) It’s really nice talking with you
28. ) You got a nice car
29. ) You make me laugh
30. ) You got a nice smile

It’s hard to believe that ordinary women out there have the ability to melt the men’s heart. Learn the secrets to captivate a man’s heart, appeal to their needs and desires. Simply phrases or compliments will surely bring a smile onto his face.

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Wingcent Ning
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Is it Possible to Have a Relationship Without Sex ?

Is it Possible to Have a Relationship Without Sex ?


Let’s start with understanding what love is not. Well, it is not intimidation, abuse, harassment, manipulation, physical or emotional violence. It says in the bible that love is always kind and patient. Therefore, forcing someone to do something against her will is not love, it’s control. And the urge of being control is fear. The fear of being rejected or not getting something.

Actually, the opposite of love is not hate, its fear. When fear is present, love will not be possible because fear is there to block it. A lot of people are afraid to love because they are afraid of being hurt and disappointed. However, rejection will only hurt you if you reject yourself. If you start loving yourself unconditionally, then unrequited love will not affect you negatively because you will not dwell on it. You will quickly get over it and quickly find someone who will reciprocate your love.

Remember, your most important love relationship is with yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you are unlikely to love anyone else. So, start making peace yourself today and start loving yourself all over again.

Scientist have proven that falling in love is a chemical reaction. Hormones will create confusion in your body, that you believe that you have finally found your soulmate. Your heart rate will increases, you will blush and start shaking when he or she talks to you. You are unable to sleep at night and you can’t eat, which is great if you want to lose weight. Or maybe you do the opposite and suddenly become an emotional eater, stuffing yourself with alot of food so that you can put that person out of your mind, for at least awhile.

I would probably be easier to begin a relationship without being in love, because your emotions won’t wreck havoc and you can keep a clear head. This chaos is not always a nice feeling because it could bring to surface the insecurity, which can lead to pain and suffering. Being in love is actually a sexual feeling. We are attached to each other physically, which is common, since we are programmed that way.

However, if being in love means being in lust, then according to statistics, it doesn’t last very long. The feeling evaporates after a few years, The madness of ripping each other’s clothes off will become a memory, so is staying in bed all day making love.

It is actually possible to be in love without the element of sex. Platonic love can be intimate and affectionate, without being sexual. Much more than just physical attraction, love is about respecting and understanding each other. It is about trust and accepting the other person as they are.

Sure, you can fall in love instantly, but will it last ? Don’t you think love at first sight is an illusion, since I can only see what I see ? Then reality bite, I am in for a shock, this man or this woman who seem perfect 3 days ago have so many defects. And he or she is probably thinking the same about me. We are both disillusioned and now even the sex doesn’t keep us together anymore, as the physical passion have evaporated.

Love itself is a commitment. It grows overtime, especially when people are there for each other, where they will listen and understand each other. Communication is important. It is ok to have disagreements sometimes as long as it doesn’t degenerate into fights.

Dating someone you love like a friend means you’re compatible on more levels than just the physical one. True love is similar to friendship. The important thing is to establish trust and good communication. Sex is an added bonus, as it is the culmination of your love for each other. But even without sex, it is possible to have a relationship, as long as there is affection and true understanding, and a willingness to share.

A desire to give and receive love will lead us towards a satisfying relationship, in which commitment plays the biggest role. Sex is not compulsory. The main ingredients are trust, acceptance, understanding, respect and appreciation. These can be found in friendship as well, which is why friendship is the best foundation for true love.

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Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch

How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch


Most People have forgotten the simplest lovemaking ‘method’ of all : the unbelievable power of human touch. Even when the opportunity arises in lovemaking sessions for us to offer and receive the satisfaction of the caress, we tend to get caught up in the drive to ejaculatory orgasms.

Making Lovemaking as a Real Love Creating Experience

I acknowledged, ejaculatory orgasms produce intense pleasure, but without the slow build up of conscious touch, it is a bit like a sneeze in the groin, like a release of tension, than a very deep satisfying experience that “makes love grow”.

Regrettably for most people, sex encounters become more mutual masturbation than real love building experiences.

Tantra invites us to take time to thoroughly touch one another to increase arousal across the entire body. Our skin is our biggest organ and needs caring affection and attention. But the Tantric touch, the conscious touch, goes deeper than the skin.

Using Conscious Touch

“Conscious touch” means that you are not thinking of something else. Your focus is fully on your lover, how they inhale and how they take in your touch. Your conscious touch stirs up their energy, stiring up both the heart and the flow of sexual energy in the form of weak electronic waves that continue to build up until they become bigger waves that encompass the entire body.

Sometimes we touch how we want to be touched instead of tuning in to see how our partner likes it. If you realize your lover caught up in their own thoughts, notice how you are touching them. Ask if they would prefer a softer or stronger, slower or faster touch. This will get their attention back, and you will get an opportunity to provide them the touch they desire.

Touch is both sensuous and healing. The most apparent emissaries of love are our arms, and the focal points where love flows are the palms. When we touch our partner, we help them heal from any struggles or unhappiness they experience during the day, and they sense that life is worth living just to be caress by you.

Connecting Your Intention With Your Breath

When you connect your intention to your breath, you will sense their muscles sucking in that focus, all through the bones. Yes, bones need affection and attention too, and your intention connected with your breath is attractive enough to penetrate deeply.

Tantric people know that touching a lover does not have to end in ejaculation. Some women cringe when their men begin touching them because they know it will end up in intercourse and they might not be in the mood.

I invite men to set up a “just touching time” with your beloved. Then, even when she gets aroused you keep your agreement of “just touching” during that time. By doing this often, you create trust in your word, and she will be caress with joy every time you do so.

And I assure you that both of you will have an incredibly great time caressing and making love.

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Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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