Friday, November 21, 2008

How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch

How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch


Most People have forgotten the simplest lovemaking ‘method’ of all : the unbelievable power of human touch. Even when the opportunity arises in lovemaking sessions for us to offer and receive the satisfaction of the caress, we tend to get caught up in the drive to ejaculatory orgasms.

Making Lovemaking as a Real Love Creating Experience

I acknowledged, ejaculatory orgasms produce intense pleasure, but without the slow build up of conscious touch, it is a bit like a sneeze in the groin, like a release of tension, than a very deep satisfying experience that “makes love grow”.

Regrettably for most people, sex encounters become more mutual masturbation than real love building experiences.

Tantra invites us to take time to thoroughly touch one another to increase arousal across the entire body. Our skin is our biggest organ and needs caring affection and attention. But the Tantric touch, the conscious touch, goes deeper than the skin.

Using Conscious Touch

“Conscious touch” means that you are not thinking of something else. Your focus is fully on your lover, how they inhale and how they take in your touch. Your conscious touch stirs up their energy, stiring up both the heart and the flow of sexual energy in the form of weak electronic waves that continue to build up until they become bigger waves that encompass the entire body.

Sometimes we touch how we want to be touched instead of tuning in to see how our partner likes it. If you realize your lover caught up in their own thoughts, notice how you are touching them. Ask if they would prefer a softer or stronger, slower or faster touch. This will get their attention back, and you will get an opportunity to provide them the touch they desire.

Touch is both sensuous and healing. The most apparent emissaries of love are our arms, and the focal points where love flows are the palms. When we touch our partner, we help them heal from any struggles or unhappiness they experience during the day, and they sense that life is worth living just to be caress by you.

Connecting Your Intention With Your Breath

When you connect your intention to your breath, you will sense their muscles sucking in that focus, all through the bones. Yes, bones need affection and attention too, and your intention connected with your breath is attractive enough to penetrate deeply.

Tantric people know that touching a lover does not have to end in ejaculation. Some women cringe when their men begin touching them because they know it will end up in intercourse and they might not be in the mood.

I invite men to set up a “just touching time” with your beloved. Then, even when she gets aroused you keep your agreement of “just touching” during that time. By doing this often, you create trust in your word, and she will be caress with joy every time you do so.

And I assure you that both of you will have an incredibly great time caressing and making love.

Thanks for Reading
Good Luck !

Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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