Why Men Hate to Commit to Women ?

Why Men Hate to Commit to Women ?

Now if your man is having a hard time committing to you, he may be doing so because of one of these reasons :

1. ) He is having all the benefits of being in a romantic relationship without having to commit to you. So if you are giving him all of you without him being fully committed to you for the long haul, you offer to him with a situation where he can’t see tangible reason to take that next step forward since he is getting you free of charge.

2. ) He is concern that what happened to his parents might happen to him so he is being extra careful. Some men want to be in love, but when they remember what happened to their parents — divorce — they get frighten.

3. ) They have not finished sowing their wild oats and committing to you one hundred percent will prevent them from getting their groove on.

4. ) You are not quite what they really want. They are happy being with you, but they not sure if you are exactly what they are searching for. It does not mean that you are up to standard for them ; it is just mean that you do not fit the type of woman they are searching.

For example — some men want wild in bed — a woman with a high sex drive. If you meet their expectations in all the other aspects of life and you just short of the high sex drive they want their future partner to have, they may not want to go into a long term relationship with you.

5. ) You are not challenging them enough. They see you as someone they can pretty much tell anything and get what they want. Men are looking for women they need to work hard to keep.

6. ) You may have some problems with your weight that they may not be very happy with. Sure they may seem to enjoy your company, but the weight issue could be keeping them from turning you the woman of their dreams. Most men are simply concern of the fact that their woman may have the kind of weight that will end up turning them off down the road.

7. ) If you have no ambition or goals, some men will not want to commit to you. If they sense that you are not the type that will contribute to the financial well-being of their home, they will not be very motivated to be with you for the long term.

8. ) You have a tendency to want to control them. If a man sense that you are the [type that will end up wanting to control their life that man is not going to be romantically involved with you for the long haul. He will end up keeping you long enough for him to find someone that will let him be himself.

9. ) He may be in the middle of trying to move onto another relationship that he is working on. While he is trying to make sure that the other woman is the one he desire, he will keep you waiting — he will not be with you.

10. ) If a man sees that you are a big flirt, he will not commit to you. Why ? Well, no man is going to be in a relationship with a woman who cannot control their flirtatious ways with other men.

So there you go, men have tons of reasons why they may not want to commit to women. So if you are not getting the kind of commitment you want from your man, then you need to either change certain things you are doing, or simply let him know what you want and if he does not act on it, then move on.

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Wingcent Ning

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