Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Are You Balding ? How Can You Find a Date ?

Are You Balding ? How Can You Find a Date ?


Balding is a common sign in our society. As our hair is part of our features, they can contribute to our dating success as well. While a lot of women make it a point that they only date men with healthy-looking hair, balding men do find their suitors too. The measure of a man is not solely his hair or his face for that matter, but the entire package ; personality, dressing style, communication skills and of course feelings.

Look at Matsumoto Hitoshi, a famous comedian of Japan. He is bald, but the people love him. Bald man can be interesting, humorous, charismatic, fine-looking and pleasant, like Matsumoto. In fact, Matsumoto can put many men to shame when it comes to being likeable. So neither society nor the bald man should look too deeply into the hair problem.

Still, there are some women who only like guys with a lot of hair. It is merely a matter of preference, thus calling them shallow amounts to over-generalization. Some associate hair loss to illness and while it may be true for a very small minority, balding is as common a sign of age as wrinkles. Other factors to contribute to balding will be diet, lifestyle, genetics, and daily care, the right use of hair products and a bit of luck. As with all other issues, different societies feel balding very differently. Some have already seen it as common and trivial.

Then so, why are balding men still losing out ? One of the reasons is it may be seen as unhealthy to lose hair. Therefore, with that concept in mind, the woman will find it hard to accept the man’s courtship. This is the most common reason. The other may be more obvious : they have mediocre personalities like the rest of the loveless men. Therefore, it takes some luck along with a good personality.

If one is bald and has a good character, then he deserves a woman that loves him just like the other men. The largest obstacle is probably the confidence. Any attitude will show on your face, whether it’s good or bad, or whether you know it or not. A bald man who feels insecure needs to read up on confidence and the philosophies of life, and get the truth that life and dove is not all about hair. Date confidently and be comfortable about yourself and this will show on your face. Confidence does makes a difference in physical appearance too, and it’s more obvious than we think.

However, if a bald man should attempt to date a new woman and the woman has started to show disinterest without even knowing his personality, then it’s time to move on. After all, perception is a difficult subject and we cannot force ours on everyone, even if it is closer to truth.

Thanks for Reading
Good Luck !


Wingcent Ning
wingcent@singnet.com.sg
WingcentDotDreams.com
Singapore

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