Get Your Man Committed - Dating Advice For Women

Get Your Man Committed - Dating Advice For Women

Nothing can be more frustrating than being in a relationship for a long time and never talk about marriage. if your man won’t commit, you might start to think if you are wasting your time. Although it is true that a lasting relationship may not need to include marriage, but if you are looking forward to having kids, or a stronger bond can be created through marriage, then a trip to the altar is something you need to do.

Men often tells you that there is nothing you can do to change the mind of a commitment phobic. That isn’t always true. There is always something you can do to make a man suddenly decide he wants to marry you.

If your man don’t commit, the very last thing you need to do is to nag at him. A man won’t simply decide he wants to marry the woman he love because she keep going on and on about it. In fact, your constant nagging make him more convince in his decision of not marrying you.

One of the best thing any woman can do to make a man commit is to stop bringing the subject up. Men expect to be bombarded by questions on where his relationship is headed. If you don’t bring the subject up, he will be thinking more and more about it.

Another great approach to take if your man doesn’t commit is to make yourself less accessible. One of the issues of long term relationship where there seem to be no commitment is how woman seem to be available. When a woman is always available and willing to adapt to meet her boyfriend’s schedule she’s silently telling him that his needs are more important than hers.

A great test of a man’s true feelings is to make yourself scarce for a few days or weeks. Plan a trip with your girlfriend and when you are out of town, try not to contact your man too often. You want to create a senario where he will start missing you when you are away. It’s that longing to see you that will push him to want to be together with you permanently.

So start testing your man and get him committed.

Do you have any insights to share? Feel free to leave a comment or two. Happy relationship!

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Why Does Relationship Break Up ?

Why Does Relationship Break Up ?

Relationship break-ups have their own reasons, and each are different, to be considered on a case by case basis. The essentials of a relationship are love, time spent together, commitment, loyalty and a little bit of compromise. It takes two to clap. So in a good relationship, both will have to commit to the relationship. Once any factor is missing from at least one party, the relationship may start to break.

A new relationship is as delicate as a plant. Efforts and time must be spent so that it can grow. And once the relationship matures, it will be a strong one that will be difficult to break from external sources. At that stage love is very strong, and both are fully aware how deep each other’s love is.

No one can try to separate them, and the love lasts even if they have to be separated by long distances. Such a love is strong. It is called true love, and sadly not everyone can claim to achieve it.

A new relationship needs a lot of time. You have to spend a lot of time with each other, to know what each other like and dislikes, and to know how they would like to be loved. The deeper the understanding, the stronger the love will be. Deep understanding takes a lot of time spent together, and a lot of communication.

Before you even start a new relationship, think of how much time you are going to spend on it. All relationships should be taken seriously and you must be willing to sacrifice time to spend with your partner. The amount of time you are willing to spend have to be long term.

Know that for any healthy relationships, inputs will have to come from both sides. It’s perfectly alright that the man initiates most of them, but the woman will have to commit too. The relationship should be seen as a mutual contribution instead of a one-sided solo project.

The above tips followed properly would ensure a healthy relationship. It may be difficult to agree with yourself to commit at first but once that period of struggling is over, you will learn to swim in the river of love.

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101 Romantic Things You Can Do With Your Spouse - Part #1

101 Romantic Things You Can Do With Your Spouse - Part #1

I believe romance is something most couple lack, especially after a few years of courtship. Therefore, I intent to focus more on romantic ideas in this blog hoping to spice up your love life. Lets begin with a list of romantic things that you can do with your life partner. It will be a long list, thus I have broken up into 2 parts. It will be something you wanted, and I believe it’s going to be well worth it.

#1 - Watch the sunset together.

#2 - Take showers together.

#3 - Back rubs/massages.

#4 - Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with blacklight.

#5 - French Kiss.

#6 - Hold your wife with hands inside the back of her shirt.

#7 - Whisper to each other.

#8 - Cook for each other.

#9 - Skinny dip ( discreetly ).

#10 - Make out in the rain.

#11 - Dress each other.

#12 - Undress each other.

#13 - Kiss every part of your wife’s body.

#14 - Hold hands.

#15 - Sleep together. ( Actually sleep with each other ... not sex )

#16 - One word ... Foreplay.

#17 - Sit and talk.

#18 - Buy gifts for each other.

#19 - Roses.

#20 - Wear your lifemate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.

#21 - Wear your husband’s clothes.

#22 - Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.

#23 - Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex.

#24 - Kiss at every chance you get.

#25 - Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.

#26 - Kinky is bad ... Blindfolds are good.

#27 - Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper “I love you”.

#28 - Bubble baths.

#29 - Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.

#30 - Make love.

#31 - Write poetry for each other.

#32 - Kiss and smell your wife’s hair.

#33 - Hugs are the universal medicine.

#34 - Say “I love you”, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.

#35 - Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry, etc ...

#36 - Tell your wife that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.

#37 - Spend every second possible together.

#38 - Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.

#39 - Look into each other’s eyes.

#40 - Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.

#41 - Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.

#42 - When in public, flirt with each other.

#43 - Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.

#44 - Put love notes in your lifemate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.

#45 - Clothes are no fun.

#46 - Buy your wife a ring.

#47 - Keep something special of your wife’s/your husband’s somewhere where you see it everyday.

#48 - Sing to each other.

#49 - Read to each other.

#50 - PDA = Public Displays of Affection.

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Are You Balding ? How Can You Find a Date ?

Are You Balding ? How Can You Find a Date ?

Balding is a common sign in our society. As our hair is part of our features, they can contribute to our dating success as well. While a lot of women make it a point that they only date men with healthy-looking hair, balding men do find their suitors too. The measure of a man is not solely his hair or his face for that matter, but the entire package ; personality, dressing style, communication skills and of course feelings.

Look at Matsumoto Hitoshi, a famous comedian of Japan. He is bald, but the people love him. Bald man can be interesting, humorous, charismatic, fine-looking and pleasant, like Matsumoto. In fact, Matsumoto can put many men to shame when it comes to being likeable. So neither society nor the bald man should look too deeply into the hair problem.

Still, there are some women who only like guys with a lot of hair. It is merely a matter of preference, thus calling them shallow amounts to over-generalization. Some associate hair loss to illness and while it may be true for a very small minority, balding is as common a sign of age as wrinkles. Other factors to contribute to balding will be diet, lifestyle, genetics, and daily care, the right use of hair products and a bit of luck. As with all other issues, different societies feel balding very differently. Some have already seen it as common and trivial.

Then so, why are balding men still losing out ? One of the reasons is it may be seen as unhealthy to lose hair. Therefore, with that concept in mind, the woman will find it hard to accept the man’s courtship. This is the most common reason. The other may be more obvious : they have mediocre personalities like the rest of the loveless men. Therefore, it takes some luck along with a good personality.

If one is bald and has a good character, then he deserves a woman that loves him just like the other men. The largest obstacle is probably the confidence. Any attitude will show on your face, whether it’s good or bad, or whether you know it or not. A bald man who feels insecure needs to read up on confidence and the philosophies of life, and get the truth that life and dove is not all about hair. Date confidently and be comfortable about yourself and this will show on your face. Confidence does makes a difference in physical appearance too, and it’s more obvious than we think.

However, if a bald man should attempt to date a new woman and the woman has started to show disinterest without even knowing his personality, then it’s time to move on. After all, perception is a difficult subject and we cannot force ours on everyone, even if it is closer to truth.

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History of Valentines Greetings

History of Valentines Greetings

Verses and Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages, when lovers said or sang their valentines. Written valentines began to appear after 1400. The oldest "valentine" in existence was made in the 1400's and is in the British Museum. Paper valentines were exchanged in Europe where they were given in place of valentine gifts. Paper valentines were especially popular in England. Early valentines were made by hand and were made with colored paper, watercolors, and colored inks

There were many different types of handmade valentines, including :

Acrostic valentines - Had verses in which the first lines spelled out the loved one's name.

Cutout valentines - Made by folding the paper several times and then cutting out a lacelike design with small, sharp, pointed scissors.

Pinprick valentines - Made by pricking tiny holes in a paper with a pin or needle. creating the look of lace.

Theorem or Poonah valentines - Designs that were painted through a stencil cut in oil paper, a style that came from the Orient.

Rebus valentines - Verses in which tiny pictures take the place of some of the words. ( an eye would take the place of the word I )

Puzzle Purse valentines - A folded puzzle to read and refold. Among their many folds were verses that had to be read in a certain order.

Fraktur valentines - Had ornamental lettering in the style of illuminated manuscripts of the Middle Ages.

In the early 1800's, valentines began to be assembled in factories. Early manufactured valentines were black and white pictures that were painted by workers in a factory. Fancy valentines were made with real lace and ribbons, with paper lace introduced in the mid 1800's. By the end of the 1800's valentines were being made entirely by machine.

In the early 1900's a card company named Norcross began to manufacture valentines. Each year Hallmark displays its collection of rare and antique valentines at card shops around the country. Museums and Libraries also offer antique valentine exhibitions around St. Valentine's Day.

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History of Cupid and Valentine's Day

History of Cupid and Valentine's Day

Many wonder where did Cupid come from and why is he associated with Valentine's Day.

Cupid has long played a role in the celebrations of love and lovers. He is known as a mischievous, winged child, whose arrows who would pierce the hearts of his victims causing them to fall deeply in love. In ancient Greece he was known as Eros the young son of Aphrodite, the goddess of love and beauty. To the Roman's he was Cupid, and his mother Venus

One legend tells the story of Cupid and the mortal maiden, Psyche. Venus was jealous of the beauty of Psyche, and ordered Cupid to punish the mortal. But instead, Cupid fell deeply in love with her. He took her as his wife, but as a mortal she was forbidden to look at him. Psyche was happy until her sisters convinced her to look at Cupid. Cupid punished her by departing. Their lovely castle and gardens vanished with him and Psyche found herself alone in an open field

As she wandered to find her love, she came upon the temple of Venus. Wishing to destroy her, the goddess of love gave Psyche a series of tasks, each harder and dangerous than the last. For her last task Psyche was given a little box and told to take it to the underworld. She was told to get some of the beauty of Proserpine, the wife of Pluto, and put it in the box.

During her trip she was given tips on avoiding the dangers of the realm of the dead. And also warned not to open the box. Temptation would overcome Psyche and she opened the box. But instead of finding beauty, she found deadly slumber

Cupid found her lifeless on the ground. He gathered the sleep from her body and put it back in the box. Cupid forgave her, as did Venus. The gods, moved by Psyche's love for Cupid made her a goddess.

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Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day, February 14 is the second most celebrated day in the United States, after December 25. Here are some elements that make Valentine's Day fun and romantic.

History of St. Valentine's Day

Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday ?

The history of Valentine's Day -- and its patron saint -- is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition.

So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite ? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young, single men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today.

Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

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Things you can Do Together when you are Not Together

Things you can Do Together when you are Not Together

Long distance relationships can take it’s toil when they realize there is nothing much they can do together. This article gives you some ideas on what you can do without to spice up your long distance relationship. Hope that the ideas can get you closer to your partner.

#1 - Watch something simultaneously together !

Make a date or time of the night and watch something together could spice up the relationship. This is a good idea if you find yourself running out of things to talk about on the phone. Doing this takes off the pressure of talking since you’ll both be into the show/movie, plus it gives you something to talk about afterward !

#2 - Send your spouse flowers

Do something special once in a while. There are many flower shops that can help send flowers for you. If you don’t want to spend on real flowers, try the virtual ones. Visit Flowers2Mail.com and spice up your relationship.

#3 - Play a game together

There are a few free online games where you can play together. Try Yahoo! Games or Pogo.com.

#4 - Get a webcam

If you don’t have one already, get one. Seeing each other online is another way to get closer to each other. You may visit skype which offers similiar services.

#5 - Send an e-card !

Similar to sending a virtual bouquet, sending a hiliarious e-card can improve your relationship. If you are sick and tired of lame e-cards found online, try SomeEcards.com. But if you are easily offended by vulgarities, this site is not for you.

#6 - HoochyMail !

HoochyMail is a service that allows you to create thrilling, sexy or X-rated story about yourself and your special someone. I am sure it can bring laughter if not shocked to your love one.

#7 - Pictures, Pictures, Pictures

If you do not have webcams yet, the next best thing to do is to email pictures. This will brighten up your love one if he/she had a bad day. Another great idea is to create photo album for each other. A great site is Webshots.com

#8 - Share a journal

You could create an online journal at online journal websites such as Xanga.com and LiveJournal.com These both have privacy controls so you can control who sees your journal. Through online journals, you could get closer to your love ones even if you both are world’s apart.

#9 - Learn new things about each other

Do you think that you have nothing more to learn about your partner ? Try this ... When it’s one of those days where you guys just can’t think of anything to talk about, try asking questions.

#10 - Sing karaoke together!

This is a cool idea I’ve come across. If you are a die hard karaoke singers, this might be some fun, and something you can do online with your love! You will need a webcam and mic for this one. There are many websites out there that offer this type of activity. Search for “Free Online Karaoke.”

#11 - Read a book together

This is great for couples who have limited time together. Find a book you think you both would enjoy and and agree to read a chapter every night. Reading together, can open up lots of discussion, and can help boost a relationship in which both people feel they have run out of things to talk about.

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Why its Good to be in a Long Distance Relationship ?

Why its Good to be in a Long Distance Relationship ?


There is a saying “distant makes the heart grew fonder”. Lets say today you run into someone and you like him/her. But he/she is staying half way across the country. One part of you will say, “damn, that’s too far”, another part will be saying, “well, this could just work out”.

How on earth can a long distant relationship be a good thing ? Let me uncover the mystery for you and maybe, you can consider having a long distant relationship.

1. ) Distance will make you appreciate one another more

We tend to take things for granted especially when we are meeting our love ones everyday. When your partner is world apart from you, you will need to use your imagination more than ever. Think of the things you are gonna do when you meet up. Turn on the music and stare up into the sky, now, do you wish your partner is by your side ?

2. ) More time for yourself

In a long distant relationship, you have more motivation, more time to exercise and keep yourself fit. Not only that, you can work more on your career and spend more time with your family. Think about all the things you can accomplish within a day.

3. ) Planning the next meeting is always exciting

It gives you something to look forward to and a chance to escape from your daily life. If traveling starts to get expensive, work together to find a cheaper means of travel and split the cost from time to time. I like to think of it as an adventure and at the end of the adventure is your wonderful treasure.

4. ) A long distant relationship can be a lot stronger than a normal one

Getting through a long distance relationship can be very rewarding for both of you. Think about all the courage it takes to trust somebody thousands of miles away and still be positive.

Give yourselves a round of applause. You now share a strength that is impenetrable.

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Top 10 "Must Know" Dating Tips For Guys

Top 10 "Must Know" Dating Tips For Guys

Dating for guys should be a relax and informal situation. However, most guys tend to tense up making it very difficult for themselves when it comes to dating. Here are top 10 tips that every man should know to make it alot more easier for you. Read on ...

Try to look at your best

If it’s the first date, it’s especially important to dress at your best. They say that the first impression will last forever, so why not also be the best impression ? Know what kind of clothes look good on you and try to achieve a cool, confidence appearance with that. The most important thing about dressing is that the shirt must be ironed and not wrinkled. Its stain free and look perfectly good on you.

Once you know the importance of dressing. The next is the scent. According to dating expert, a guy’s smell will either increase the attractiveness of the guy or turn the girl off. Remember to spay the right amount of perfume at the right place like neck, wrist and chest.

Finally, be clean shave, brush your teeth, style your hair or get a good haircut, check your face on the mirror and lastly cut your nails and now, you are ready to go.

Be on time

Patience is a virtue but being late is not an excuse. In fact its a sign for not caring. If the girl is late, try telling her to make it up by buying you a drink, but do it in a teaseful manner.

Find the best place

You and your date should agree on where to go beforehand. As an alpha male, you should have a plan and suggest where to meet. If both of you have different ideas on where to go, try to compromise. Let the ladies decide first and you will decide on the next date. Just remember to find a place where the two of will be comfortable while having fun at the same time.

Mind your manners

All that you know about manners and etiquette will be helpful during dating. Show that you are helpful and be a gentleman by opening the door, pulling out the chair for her. Believe me, all of things will be important with her.

Make sure you can spit good game

No one likes a boring date, so make an effort to make it interesting. Communicate with her, and get to know here. You do not have to impress her. Ask her questions and let her ask you too. Say the right thing at the right time and avoid embarrassing questions like your ex, her ex and politics.

Be spontaneous

The best dating tip i can offer to guys is being spontaneous. Do not have to be conscious of what will happen next or will the she be happy with the date. Relax, be laid back, have fun during the date and everything else will fall in to places.

The payment method

Most of the time, its the men who pay the bill. But there are instances where women likes to shoulder the bill. On the first date, there is no need to bring her to fine restaurant. Go for something you can afford and when the bill comes, just say, “Don’t worry I got it’s no big deal”. The only reason you take your date to the fine restraunt is when she is your girlfriend. Even then, you only take her once a while.

Make the Best of your date

Every date should be memorable and special. How to do it will depend on you and the girl itself. Make her feel special during the date and it will guarantee a follow up date.

The kissing game

The most asked question, shall I kiss my date ? Well, that decision lies in you my friend. However, there are some signs which the women gives out that may be a sign. For example, she’s looking at you with an intense gaze, she licks her lips while looking at you, she laughs as everything you say, or she does the hair toss. All these are signals that means kissing is around the corner.

The phone call

There are some rules that says that you should call her 2 days after the date. There is nothing wrong in calling her the following day but don’t make a big deal out of it. Simply give her a call and start a conversation where you left behind the day before so it’s still fresh in her mind.

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Dos and Don'ts for your First Date - For Men

Dos and Don'ts for your First Date - For Men


First, lets chat about the most important "dos" and "don'ts" for your first date.

Tip #1 - Be on time. It's rude to keep your date waiting.

Tip #2 - Make a great impression. Look your best because first impressions last !

Tip #3 - Best recommend your first meeting over dinner, preferably on Friday or Saturday night ... Also avoid catching a movie. Your first date should be over dinner at a quiet, romantic restaurant. It's best to meet early on Saturday evening so you will feel relaxed and have plenty of time to talk and get to know each other.

Tip #4 - Show your best side and keep your conversation light-hearted. Work on building chemistry.

Tip #5 - Be positive. Don't be grumpy or complain about things or people.

Tip #6 - Don't talk about past relationships.

Tip #7 - Don't talk about marriage, children or whether you want your spouse to stay at home to look after the kids.

Tip #8 - Don't ask personal questions such as : Why are you still single ? How much money you make ?

Tip #9 - If you don't feel any chemistry on the first meeting, don’t walk out on your date. Simply end it on a positive note.

Tip #10 - If you’re undecided after the first date, don’t be hasty to make up your mind. Feel free to ask some experts for help, discuss your concerns. You may also refer to the 300 creative and inexpensive dates ideas reveal by a love expert. Check out below.

Tip #11 - If you both decide to meet again, choose to do something different so that you will get to see each other in a new light. A casual afternoon strolls or picnic on the beach. This time, wear comfortable clothing so that you will feel more relaxed.

Tip #12 - For the third date, you should initiate the meeting.

Stay tune for the 2nd part of "Dos and Don'ts for your First Date - For Women".

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7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic

7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic

Here are the 7 proven ways to make your man more romantic from now on.

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1. ) Pick a time, probably after making love, and tell him that you want him to be more romantic in the future. It sounds dumb, I know, but why go around circles when you can just go direct ? If he loves you and want you to be happy, he will seriously consider to be more romantic in future, for you.

2. ) Reward him when he does something romantic. If he sent flowers gush over them and how thoughtful he is. men like to be told they have done well, and when you give them something special after they done something you like, they will continue to do it. That’s why they say men are like dogs - in a good way.

3. ) Send him a challenger. Point out what romantic things other guys are doing and see what happens. if you give them another man to compete with, they will constantly strive to outdo the other guy. Point out how amazingly romantic your friend’s boyfriend is, but don’t overdo it or he will get annoyed.

4. ) Do romantic things for him. Once he sees that you’re going out of your way to be romantic towards him, he will feel the urge to reciprocate.

5. ) Set up a romantic dinner each week. Once he have gone into the habit of doing romantic things like having a candle lit dinner, he will do it on his own without your supervision. But first, you must let him know your vision of romance.

6. ) Rent some romantic videos and point out what those men are doing that are romantic. Don’t have to get him to do the exact same thing but subtly point them out. he will eventually get your hint and start treating your romantically.

7. ) Convince him that being romantic does not make him any less of a man. Some guys think being romantic is not manly and isn’t something they want their friends to know about. Let him know that he doesn’t have to tell the guys he brought you flowers and took a bubble bath with you.

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How To Use Romance To Work On Your Relationship

How To Use Romance To Work On Your Relationship

There will always be some men who will never understand the importance of romance. They could be ignorant or silly or just can’t be bothered to invest any time in romance. However, they turn out to be the foolish ones who tend to get what they want the hard way.

There are some men who know about the secrets of romance. For example, in the reality show The Bachelor, its obvious that those who stick around the longest or eventually choosen are those that are romantic. Why is that so ? Not because they are good looking, rich or have great jobs, but because they know that romance is very important in a relationship. So what do these romantic guys do ? Well, it can be simple things like picking flowers, looking at the stars or lighting candles, picnic or a nice dinner, nothing that is too difficult for average men.

I believe its true that its the small things that matter most to women when it comes to been romantic.

In my definition, romance is a creation of atmosphere where she feels unconditionally loved and appreciated. Simple things aveage Joe can do would be turn down the lights, turn on the radio, take her by the hand and ask her to dance in the kitchen. That’s romance.

Or how about handing her a wild flower, ask her to go on a stroll with you and hold hands. That’s romance too. What will she be feeling ? At that moment, she will be the happiest woman on earth, because she feel loved and appreciated.

Romance can also produce butterflies in her stomach. The passion and excitement she will be feeling for you not only manifest itself in sex but will also spill over into other aspects of the relationship.

Sometimes it takes a few romantic encounters to get the best results, she may not be used to it, she may have been hurt by you and think you’re only doing it for sex. Hang in there, the payoff is within reach.

Above all, you will have a fulfilling relationship and you will have fun discovering each other.

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What Women Would Like to Hear You Say in a Relationship ?

What Women Would Like to Hear You Say in a Relationship ?

It is no secret that every women would like to hear some nice words from her man. No matter how much you know you love your woman, if you never tell her some things once in a while, there will be no convincing her that you love her. Women are emotional beings and once in a while, they would be happy if told some sweet words especially those that can sweep them off their feet. As we know, words are very powerful tools that can be use to make a break a person.

The same goes to a relationship. Women love to be told that you are sorry, if you made a mistake. You would be surprise what a simple apology can do to you and your relationship with your woman. When apologising, say it like you mean it ... It would be worse if you say it while walking away as if it doesn’t matter. Look at her eyes and tell her you are sorry.

After being together with a woman for a long time, its natural that you will notice some changes in her. Age might be catching up on her and she knows it. If you are going to remind her about it, I don’t think that is going to help in the relationship. Instead, tell your woman that she is the most beautiful woman you ever know and that she looks vibrant and sexy. Tell her that she is attractive and that you love her, even if her skin has started wrinkling and she is a shadow of what she used to be ten years ago do not tell her the truth. Find some sweet words that emphasise she is youthful and is a joy to be with.

A woman like to be thank once in a while, but this does not mean you have to thank her every now and then, which you still could. You should take time to say thank you and appreciate the things she does for you. If possible, why not take her out specifically to thank her. You could thank her for sticking around with you when you were in difficult situation. Thank her for being the only one who ever believe in you when others are in doubt of you. Thanking her is going to make the relationship a much better one. Its true that everyone wants to be thank and appreciated once in a while.

Just because you have married her and have been together with her for some time, it does not give you a reason to stop telling her you love her and you still want her and desire her like the first time you met her. Even if this is not true ; once in a while tell your woman she is the one you want and if you were to choose all over again you would still choose her again. Tell your woman some sweet words, practice this all the time and you will be surprised at how your relationship will change to the better.

Like i said before, good words can make a good relationship. Make use of your words today.

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The Secret Scientists Say Will Guarantee a Happy Marriage

The Secret Scientists Say Will Guarantee a Happy Marriage

Anybody reading this hoping for a quick fix formula for a successful marriage, look away now.

According to a poll of 4,000 married couples, the secret to a happy marriage is spending at least 22 periods of ‘quality time’ together a month, with at least seven cosy nights in and two proper dinner dates.

Cuddles, it seems hold the key, with couples who cuddle four times a day rating their marriage as very happy.

And romantic gestures such as running a nice bath or a back massage are necessary every 10 days.

Those who described themselves as ‘very happy’ say the key to a successful partnership lies in spending lots of quality time together.

“Affection, cuddles and romantic gestures are part of a whole romantic scene which is desired by those entering a relationship.” said Chief Educational Psychologist, Dr Ludwig F.Lowenstein.

"They are the safe gestures which say - ‘I like you, I am glad to be with you, I like and appreciate your support and care".

"In this busy world we often take our partners for granted whilst we get on with our daily struggles of work and rearing a family".

"We tend to forget the importance of hugs when familiarity becomes part of our lives, and as the saying goes ‘familiarity breeds contempt’, but if affection, cuddles and romantic gestures become part of our relationship then the relationship will become strong and remain strong".

The survey revealed that the average happy couple enjoy two romantic walks, one visit to the pub and one trip to the cinema every month.

They will also spend a few romantic evenings in - eating dinner by candlelight three times a month, engaging in a proper conversation six times a month and curling up in front of the TV together seven times a month.

Flowers & Chocolates

Twice a month husband and wife should shower each other with surprise gifts - such as flowers and chocolates, or more personal items such as a soppy poem or a favourite piece of music.

A good marriage would also allow each partner to enjoy a night away from home without the other, in the company of their own friends.

Simple acts such as cleaning the house from top to bottom without being asked, or making breakfast in bed show respect for the other spouse.

And the loved-up pair will pack their bags to enjoy two short breaks in the UK and two longer holidays abroad every year.

Jim Forward of Warner Leisure Hotels, said : "Cuddles and romantic weekends away are key for a great relationship and now it’s been confirmed. It proves how important it is for couples to make time for each other".

"A successful relationship is built on trust and love for each other. This should be communicated or shown whenever couples have the chance".

"But Brits are increasingly becoming rushed off their feet and it’s sometimes easy to forget to fully appreciate your ‘other half".

A staggering 98 per cent of the ‘very happy’ couples say they feel really lucky to be in such a stable relationship - and 94 per cent genuinely believe no other relationship is as solid as theirs.

The Key to Long Lasting Relationship :

Cuddles : 4 a day

Romantic gestures : 3 a month

Dinner dates : 2 a month

Romantic walks : 2 a month

Romantic gifts : 2 a month

Home cooked romantic meals : 3 a month

Breakfast in bed : 1 a month

Proper conversation : 6 a month

Trip to the pub : 1 a month

Cosy evenings in : 7 a month

Clean house from top to bottom : 3 a month

Night out without each other : 1 a month

Cinema or theatre : 1 a month

Short UK break : 2 a year

Holiday : 2 a year

After reading this article, I am fully convince that it does take time and effort to build a solid relationship. A lot of times relationship falls apart due to lack of communication. Yes, hugs and kisses are a form of non-verbal communication.

Remember to have a check list and take your daily dose of intimacy. Have a great relationship !

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Understanding Men

Understanding Men


Understand men can be a difficult and frustrating endeavor even for the most educated women. When a women like a men, she will do the best to be appealing to him. However, unless you completely understand what a men truly want in a women, its not going to be an easy task to win his heart. Although each men is unique and find different women attractive, there are some common traits that all men have. That could be an advantage for women who are trying hard to win a man’s heart.

Humor is one traits men love about women. Men love women who can laugh at herself and the world. This does not mean that she need to make fun of herself or anybody but should be light hearted and witty. If a woman is too serious, men will perceive her as icy cold or a drama queen. If a woman keeps giggling, she maybe perceive as a little ditz. Instead, just be open to laughter and be clever and witty and you will be able to attract men.

Intelligent is another highly sought after qualities in women. You do not have to have a college degree to be intelligent. Just keep abreast of the current news. Know what is happening around the world today. If a man start a conversation, you’ve to be sure that you can hold the conversation well with genuine replies. Read the newspaper, watch the news and soak up society, you will benefit a great deal by keeping on top of what is happening today.

Women who are independent are also appealing to men. Years ago, the ideal women are the ones who have no problem giving up their career for the sake of the family. However, most men realize that women have their own career pursuit and would not forgo it. Being completely independent financially is what men loves about women. Men wants a women to embrace what she does for a living and find fulfillment in it.

On the same token, self-confident women are always the focus of men. Men find women appealing when she can embrace every part of herself including her flaws.

Now that you understand exactly what men love in women you are well on your way to having the man of your dreams adore you. Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. Good luck!

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30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart

30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart

I believe that the words you use have power. It can inspire and captivate a man and have him notice you. What are the words you can use to get his attention ?

Just like women who like to be praise and appreciated and told that they have a beautiful face ? They do feel happy when receiving such compliments from men. The same goes to men. What do men like to hear from women ?

Words men love to hear ...

1. ) When can we meet again ?
2. ) I can really trust in you
3. ) How do you know all this ? I’m so impressed
4. ) I’ve never met any man like you before
5. ) I like who I am when I’m with you
6. ) I feel honored to know you
7. ) You’re really so humorous !
8. ) You look wonderful/great with your new hair look
9. ) Are you really still single ?
10. ) I like confident guys like you
11. ) Hey, you have special talent
12. ) I believe you can make it
13. ) I believe in you when you tell me ...
14. ) You sure can do it
15. ) You have such a great idea
16. ) You are so different from other men
17. ) I love the way you look at things
18. ) You are good at doing things like that
19. ) Tell me more. I love to hear what you think
20. ) I’m happy when I’m with you
21. ) I agree what you said
22. ) You’re great/amazing guy
23. ) I’m speechless
24. ) I like your jokes
25. ) I love to be with you
26. ) Thank you
27. ) It’s really nice talking with you
28. ) You got a nice car
29. ) You make me laugh
30. ) You got a nice smile

It’s hard to believe that ordinary women out there have the ability to melt the men’s heart. Learn the secrets to captivate a man’s heart, appeal to their needs and desires. Simply phrases or compliments will surely bring a smile onto his face.

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Is it Possible to Have a Relationship Without Sex ?

Is it Possible to Have a Relationship Without Sex ?

Let’s start with understanding what love is not. Well, it is not intimidation, abuse, harassment, manipulation, physical or emotional violence. It says in the bible that love is always kind and patient. Therefore, forcing someone to do something against her will is not love, it’s control. And the urge of being control is fear. The fear of being rejected or not getting something.

Actually, the opposite of love is not hate, its fear. When fear is present, love will not be possible because fear is there to block it. A lot of people are afraid to love because they are afraid of being hurt and disappointed. However, rejection will only hurt you if you reject yourself. If you start loving yourself unconditionally, then unrequited love will not affect you negatively because you will not dwell on it. You will quickly get over it and quickly find someone who will reciprocate your love.

Remember, your most important love relationship is with yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you are unlikely to love anyone else. So, start making peace yourself today and start loving yourself all over again.

Scientist have proven that falling in love is a chemical reaction. Hormones will create confusion in your body, that you believe that you have finally found your soulmate. Your heart rate will increases, you will blush and start shaking when he or she talks to you. You are unable to sleep at night and you can’t eat, which is great if you want to lose weight. Or maybe you do the opposite and suddenly become an emotional eater, stuffing yourself with alot of food so that you can put that person out of your mind, for at least awhile.

I would probably be easier to begin a relationship without being in love, because your emotions won’t wreck havoc and you can keep a clear head. This chaos is not always a nice feeling because it could bring to surface the insecurity, which can lead to pain and suffering. Being in love is actually a sexual feeling. We are attached to each other physically, which is common, since we are programmed that way.

However, if being in love means being in lust, then according to statistics, it doesn’t last very long. The feeling evaporates after a few years, The madness of ripping each other’s clothes off will become a memory, so is staying in bed all day making love.

It is actually possible to be in love without the element of sex. Platonic love can be intimate and affectionate, without being sexual. Much more than just physical attraction, love is about respecting and understanding each other. It is about trust and accepting the other person as they are.

Sure, you can fall in love instantly, but will it last ? Don’t you think love at first sight is an illusion, since I can only see what I see ? Then reality bite, I am in for a shock, this man or this woman who seem perfect 3 days ago have so many defects. And he or she is probably thinking the same about me. We are both disillusioned and now even the sex doesn’t keep us together anymore, as the physical passion have evaporated.

Love itself is a commitment. It grows overtime, especially when people are there for each other, where they will listen and understand each other. Communication is important. It is ok to have disagreements sometimes as long as it doesn’t degenerate into fights.

Dating someone you love like a friend means you’re compatible on more levels than just the physical one. True love is similar to friendship. The important thing is to establish trust and good communication. Sex is an added bonus, as it is the culmination of your love for each other. But even without sex, it is possible to have a relationship, as long as there is affection and true understanding, and a willingness to share.

A desire to give and receive love will lead us towards a satisfying relationship, in which commitment plays the biggest role. Sex is not compulsory. The main ingredients are trust, acceptance, understanding, respect and appreciation. These can be found in friendship as well, which is why friendship is the best foundation for true love.

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How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch

How to Make Love Making a Real Experience With Touch

Most People have forgotten the simplest lovemaking ‘method’ of all : the unbelievable power of human touch. Even when the opportunity arises in lovemaking sessions for us to offer and receive the satisfaction of the caress, we tend to get caught up in the drive to ejaculatory orgasms.

Making Lovemaking as a Real Love Creating Experience

I acknowledged, ejaculatory orgasms produce intense pleasure, but without the slow build up of conscious touch, it is a bit like a sneeze in the groin, like a release of tension, than a very deep satisfying experience that “makes love grow”.

Regrettably for most people, sex encounters become more mutual masturbation than real love building experiences.

Tantra invites us to take time to thoroughly touch one another to increase arousal across the entire body. Our skin is our biggest organ and needs caring affection and attention. But the Tantric touch, the conscious touch, goes deeper than the skin.

Using Conscious Touch

“Conscious touch” means that you are not thinking of something else. Your focus is fully on your lover, how they inhale and how they take in your touch. Your conscious touch stirs up their energy, stiring up both the heart and the flow of sexual energy in the form of weak electronic waves that continue to build up until they become bigger waves that encompass the entire body.

Sometimes we touch how we want to be touched instead of tuning in to see how our partner likes it. If you realize your lover caught up in their own thoughts, notice how you are touching them. Ask if they would prefer a softer or stronger, slower or faster touch. This will get their attention back, and you will get an opportunity to provide them the touch they desire.

Touch is both sensuous and healing. The most apparent emissaries of love are our arms, and the focal points where love flows are the palms. When we touch our partner, we help them heal from any struggles or unhappiness they experience during the day, and they sense that life is worth living just to be caress by you.

Connecting Your Intention With Your Breath

When you connect your intention to your breath, you will sense their muscles sucking in that focus, all through the bones. Yes, bones need affection and attention too, and your intention connected with your breath is attractive enough to penetrate deeply.

Tantric people know that touching a lover does not have to end in ejaculation. Some women cringe when their men begin touching them because they know it will end up in intercourse and they might not be in the mood.

I invite men to set up a “just touching time” with your beloved. Then, even when she gets aroused you keep your agreement of “just touching” during that time. By doing this often, you create trust in your word, and she will be caress with joy every time you do so.

And I assure you that both of you will have an incredibly great time caressing and making love.

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